There is this friend of mine we’re talking since a month almost
I am the one always texting first, he never texts first anytime
What to do?
I don’t want to tell him directly
I did tell him by just giving him slight idea
But he ignores
What to do?
I just feel like a clingy person somehow
Like if i didn’t text first there have been days we haven’t talked for days
I think he/she is simply not interested in talking to you or else they would have texted first
I disagree with the other comments, first of all I think you should asses the relationship (friendship), do you real feel you are the only one putting effort or is that you enjoy it irrespective of who texts first… Like do he behave good even though you are texting first, or he sounds irritated?
See, what I wanna convey is, I belong to the other category, they guy side… Even if I wanna talk with someone, I don’t know what to say, so I simply never initiate conversation. Although I can talk for hours, if the other person initiates it, I don’t have problem in it. But I feel weird, calling someone or even texting anyone for no reason, just for chitchat, I know I’m not right, but that’s who I am.
its the same case
And tbh i don’t feel i am the only one puttig efforts
Although i text first but we then talk for hours andd he does behave good
But i don’t know always initiating the conversations doesn’t seem good to me
Yeah can understand.
I think you can talk about it to him, whenever you feel comfortable showing what you feel… and always initializing conversation doesn’t seems good to you, and your insecurities. I know it’s easier to said then done, showing insecurities/vulnerable helps to strengthen relationship, if you don’t wanna break it and the other person is close to you…