Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

share your deepest feelings and emotions in a safe and supportive environment.

โš•๏ธDepression

๐Ÿง‘Anxiety

๐Ÿ˜ฐStress

๐Ÿ’—Relationships

Create Thought

โ€บFriendsโ€บThought

๐Ÿ‘€
Anonymous

There is this friend of mine weโ€™re talking since a month almost
I am the one always texting first, he never texts first anytime
What to do?
I donโ€™t want to tell him directly
I did tell him by just giving him slight idea
But he ignores
What to do?
I just feel like a clingy person somehow
Like if i didnโ€™t text first there have been days we havenโ€™t talked for days

๐Ÿก
Profile picture for Now&Me member @ahrstu
๐Ÿ‘€
6 replies
๐Ÿก
Anonymous
โ€ข

I think he/she is simply not interested in talking to you or else they would have texted first

๐Ÿ‘€
Anonymous
โ€ข

Okkk

Profile picture for Now&Me member @ahrstu

Ahrstu @ahrstu

โ€ข

I disagree with the other comments, first of all I think you should asses the relationship (friendship), do you real feel you are the only one putting effort or is that you enjoy it irrespective of who texts firstโ€ฆ Like do he behave good even though you are texting first, or he sounds irritated?

See, what I wanna convey is, I belong to the other category, they guy sideโ€ฆ Even if I wanna talk with someone, I donโ€™t know what to say, so I simply never initiate conversation. Although I can talk for hours, if the other person initiates it, I donโ€™t have problem in it. But I feel weird, calling someone or even texting anyone for no reason, just for chitchat, I know Iโ€™m not right, but thatโ€™s who I am.

๐Ÿ‘€
Anonymous
โ€ข

Well
its the same case
And tbh i donโ€™t feel i am the only one puttig efforts
Although i text first but we then talk for hours andd he does behave good
But i donโ€™t know always initiating the conversations doesnโ€™t seem good to me

Profile picture for Now&Me member @ahrstu

Ahrstu @ahrstu

โ€ข

Yeah can understand.

I think you can talk about it to him, whenever you feel comfortable showing what you feelโ€ฆ and always initializing conversation doesnโ€™t seems good to you, and your insecurities. I know itโ€™s easier to said then done, showing insecurities/vulnerable helps to strengthen relationship, if you donโ€™t wanna break it and the other person is close to youโ€ฆ

user_group_img

8564 users have benefited
from FREE CHAT last month

Start Free Chat
start_free_chat_cta_image