There is always one thing that constantly triggers me in my relationship . I got into this relationship and now i feel like this isn’t something that i wanted , i feel like I’m in a boring relationship who is constantly pressuring me to be certain way . There is no spark between us. Relationship should be something that brings you joy and happiness. I agree every relationship has ups and downs but it shouldn’t be always downs. Someone who is going to be with you for a lifetime should be able to bring joy and happiness as well . I don’t even want happiness anymore at least less sadness, less fights and less confusion . It shouldn’t be a struggle to be in a relationship. And if i ever be in a relationship again at least i hope it doesn’t turn out to be my nightmare.
Damn I can totally relate that every single details that you gave really matches my story as well. And yes it is true relationship shouldn’t be only downs , I also used to be in a relationship with I guy I liked first and 4 months ago I had to break up with him because of this reason. Days used to start with normal talks and end with stupid arguments almost every day. We used to talk more about materialistic stuff instead of things that were more important. He crossed a lot of my boundaries and I failed to stop him sooner which made things worse and I had to break apart from him for the sake of my mental peace. Don’t worry you arnt alone and things will be alright, you will find someone so better that you never expected.
Kaveri Murthy @kaverimurth...
Thank you 🙏🏼
Sneha Naik @daffodils_dew
This one guy got annoyed with me because I did not like the reel he sent me. According to him, I should like everything he shares. I was like, Can I have an opinion ? Freedom of choice ? For such a small reason he got annoyed. Maine bhi bola bhaad mei Jaa. When someone tries to control you and tells you to be a certain way, better leave them. Inn logo ko sab apne hisaab se chahiye
Kaveri Murthy @kaverimurth...
I can’t blv he did that . Its the small thing that always triggers us and its always the small things that matters the most
Whoever you are girl or boy …leave your partner.
Actually like the other peoples in comment box…I also faced the same, my ex boyfriend wanted to control me, he said he’ll help me in studies …so I talked to him…by the time he started brain washing me that I must listen to him and talk to him even when I am having my semesters im graduation, i should listen to him not my parents. I should not talk to other boys …I mean wtf…I started having less interest in him, at the end after fighting with him for 2 years I left him. Now I feel like I am breathing again !
Kaveri Murthy @kaverimurth...
I feel sad for what you had to go through. I’m sure you’ll find someone better 😊
Thank you for your wishes yaar …and I already found someone …it is my best friend…we have been friends for 10-12 years …now we like each other. Actually he was the one who helped me in my tough time.
Wait … this story was posted by you …you forgot to switch to anonymous…or you did this deliberately…?
It doesn’t matter …who you are …but if you are the one who posted this story…then girl yes you are right, when you are in love …you don’t need to push yourself to be happy, you’ll feel the happiness and butterflies automatically. And it is for everyone that if you are in a relationship, arguments are very normal in a relationship but if you lose the spark, and you are pushing yourself to smile, to do something for him, or to feel something …then thing again for this relationship.
**THINK AGAIN
not thing again
Kaveri Murthy @kaverimurth...
I did forget to switch to anonymous lol
Kaveri Murthy @kaverimurth...
I have one month left to complete my course. For past couple of days i started being myself and distanced myself from me . And he is doing the same . I feel like he is losing interest in this relationship as well . He was so good idk i feel sick in my stomach. I don’t if he is doing this to get back at me . I didn’t do anything to him to get back at me in the first place . But whatever i tried to push as much as i can but even after telling him that he isn’t communicating and he still doesn’t communicate whats going on . I should be the one to ask all the time . I’m fed up . After couple of days he will either come back by questioning me how long will it be like this in a aggressive way or it will be a flirty way to console me for something I didn’t even do . For so many times I’ve forgotten what was the actual problem because it will be so small and he would have made it such a big problem. Nevermind i feel like the only thing i am feeling like i am going to lose is a loyal person . Coz its so hard to find loyalty. Turns out just loyalty is not enough in a relationship. I know ppl will judge me all they want and they may say she always has a reason but when its not enough then its not enough
Sorry to say …but if you are calling him loyal …then he shouldn’t do these stupid things. And it looks like you are the one who is loyal. Girl, all you can do now is hard work, you have so much time in future to find a loyal person like you …not like him, remember my words girl, you are going to get an excellent partner, who is as loyal as you are. He’ll love you, respect you and will never ever leave you. But just focus on yourself now, I can relate to you, how much it is difficult, but if you manage to get out of these things right, future will be yours! Go get your aim, work hard to be independent.
Kaveri Murthy @kaverimurth...
I think this is exactly what i wanted to hear.
It feels right when you put it that way .
Thank you 😊
Most welcome dear !
