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Anonymous

There is a guy, whom I like, he knows I like him, but he doesn’t like him, he got married to someone else, so I stopped talking to him because of course I was sad, I’m still sad.
We didn’t talk for months, and today after months he texted me and said he still wants to be friends.
What should I do??
I still have feelings for him, and I don’t want him out of my life but I also can’t stand the fact that he is married now

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Anonymous

Prioritise your mental peace

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Anonymous

Dude, I have been crying since the day we stopped talking and if we start talking then I would be crying for days that we didn’t end up together
My mental peace is gone in both the cases
What should I do?

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Anonymous

I can understand you! It’s not easy but you will have to. See if you be friends with him you will have the expectations and you will feel hurt. Instead if you don’t talk and keep things how they are now slowly you will get better and not hurt yourself. But if you keep talking you will be hurting yourself everytime every day.

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Anonymous

Yeah, the other person also said to stay away
So I better stay away, thank you

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Anonymous

If you still have feelings and cannot stand seeing him with someone else it is quite possible you might try to sabotage his relationship with his wife or even though you might not, intentionally, there might be a chance. Keep away, like I’m doing.
Disclaimer :- not easy at all, you’ll crave to know about his life but don’t even try to know about his life. No stalking just keep away

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Anonymous

I won’t try to sabotage the relationship for sure, I have better things to do than that
But I agree with the other points.

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Anonymous

I’m not saying you’re that kind of a human but us humans have a tendency to do so sometimes.
We might do it unintentionally.
It might even hurt you, like he made plans with you but had to cancel because of his wife that feeling of jealousy and hurt is likely to develop trust me and that m8ght eat you up

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Anonymous

Oh, yeah, this has already happened with me, and it was very disheartening
You and the other user are right
I really should stay away
Thank you.

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Anonymous

I’m not trying to sabotage the friendship you two have, at the end it really depends on you because you know yourself more than anyone who knows you can maintain that friendship but it won’t come easy. It’ll hurt you initially, as you still have feelings for him and who knows It’ll stay forever or even go with few months

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Anonymous

Okay

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Anonymous

So believe your discernment and take steps according, just take care of ypurself in the process. We cannot lose good humans☺️

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Anonymous

Yeah 😢

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Aditya Sahu @hey__

Being friends is not a wrong thing as well 🫰
Think about friendship only because nowadays friendship seems very less…

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Anonymous

And what if I’m never able to move on since I’m in contact with him
It’s been months and I haven’t moved on, I don’t want to waste my life like this

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Aditya Sahu @hey__

Then in this case you should move on only nothing can be done after this emotions…
good luck buddy
take it lite and don’t think about that much because now the story has been changed… so stop thinking Start working on yourself 😁
take care 🫰

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Anonymous

Thank you
You too take care

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Anonymous

I don’t think it would be a good move to be friends with him again. You might not know when unknowingly you’ll start to expect things from him as you still have lingering feelings for him and everything will become a mess. Don’t do it for your and his sake

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Anonymous

Okay, thank you

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Anonymous

You ll be in hell if You talk to him now… you should never talk to someone who you have feelings for and you can’t have them

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Anonymous

Okay, won’t do it
Thank you

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Anonymous

Yep… think practically and you ll know what to do🤗

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Anonymous

Yeah

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