There is a boy. I kinda liked him for now 4 years. We became besties 2 years ago. He used to tease me for our other friend saying that all my hints shows that I like him so today I told him that I don’t like our friend but him. He was shock about that. He sounded happy somehow? All the misunderstandings between us got clear but as the sensitive girl I am, made it worst. We both have been bestie since long and still. My mother knows about him. But he never told about me to anyone. I kinda got hurt because of that. He says I matter to him but he never made me feel that. Now I am starting to regret about my decision of tell him that I like him. Please do suggest me what to do?
Men are confused souls at times! They don’t have much insight… leave the room of guesses n misses and go ahead in the relationship from here. All is well!
Wait you mean that I should start dating him?
You don’t want to??
Anonymous @ara13062013
Yeah, being his bestie for 2 years, I realised that he don’t like a girl like me.
What do you wanna do?
I just don’t wanna end up being mess like all those previous girls he dated. I am just scared.
At the end, how do you envision your relationship? As bffs or a relationship? Bffs, you stay in the same place as now. If you are seeking a relationship, ask him if he is interested, and take it from there…
He is not interested, I just had a talk with him but he just answered, “Ara, I thought you were pranking me-”
Ahhh…
