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Anonymous

There are many people who will tell a man how to treat a woman and how they shouldn’t, i wanna be a better partner and it’s really difficult to know how to be that cause men don’t tend to talk about their feelings and about what they want , I just wanna know more about them so that I can understand them better , can someone help me out with this?

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Anonymous

Like how to know men better and how can I be a better person to my partner and what are things men expect but never experience and stuff like that

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Anonymous

It’s just a vibe tbh , by the way a guy talks to you , you can know whether he’s trying to be your friend (a gentleman who wants nothing else but just to be your friend and cares for you )or just yk

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Actually what she was trying to say is that , not every guy out there is nice and that I need to be careful with whom I choose to be with and not give any and every guy chance who tries to get in my life and only let the ones who are actually good and genuinely care about me or else I’ll end up getting hurt again and again

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I didn’t get you

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Anonymous

Ohh okay okay , no worries, I am the one who posted , your conversation was interesting but ig you misunderstood her a bit and it’s not your fault cause you seem to be blamed a lot of times for things and I get how hard it is for guys cause you guys get judged easily as being bad

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Anonymous

Thank you

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Anonymous

Well my question is still the same , i wanna be different and wanna actually understand men better , growing up I hated all men just like others because I was scared of them because of my experiences with some of them but ik that there are many men out there who are actually nice and i just wanna treat them fairly because ik how badly they get treated
So I just wanna know things like how to be better to them and how to treat them fairly and what are things that they expect from people which they don’t talk about it express to everyone because they are supposed to keep it all in as said my society

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Anonymous

Okay am not a caring person tbh , I mean I care a lot like a fucking lot but idk how to express it , I hate it tbh , I don’t like to express it cause then i over do it and then I feel weak? Ig idk how to say this

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Anonymous

Yes but am terrible at expressing it

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Anonymous

Saare boys sb sunlo inko lagta hai hum inse baat krne ke liye desperate hai. Jaago boys jaago mat karo ladkiyon se baat marne do inko akele 😜😛😝

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Anonymous

That’s what I don’t know how to do! I have no idea how to change myself for the better and need help that’s all

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Anonymous

Okay let me clear this out once and for all , she didn’t mean that guys are desperate! What she meant is that there are many guys who just want girls for yk… their body or just physical stuff and don’t really care and it’s true! And I agree that there are girls like that too but here we are talking about guys , and she also did mention that there are gentlemen! , By which she meant that there are many guys who will actually care and won’t use you for your needs , she was just trying to help me figure out what to do , let’s not put blames on anyone and jump onto them okay? , She didn’t mean that all guys are desperate she just asked me to stay away from the ones who are , please don’t get offended and don’t come at her she was just trying to help me

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Anonymous

How what?

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Anonymous

Yess

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Anonymous

Yes I have been in some

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Anonymous

What if I had all bad experiences?

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Anonymous

Ik what am supposed to avoid in the future relationships but all I wanna know is how should I act , how can I be a green flag , how can I be a better partner

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Anonymous

Suree

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Anonymous

We both are anonymous, can you post with your real ACC and then delete the post later , I’ll connect with you till then

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Anonymous

Or do you want me to post with my real identity?

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