There are lot of things going on my mind about someone who has been ignoring me or avoiding me so I canβt even share that thing with friends? What should I do
Can I paste my msg
Hey I m feeling little rejected and I know why let me tell you guys the story I have been talking to a girl since 2 months and I meet her 2 days ago. We spent a great time I was holding her hand and even she was comfortable with me and we shared things and etc but what I m facing right now is only disappointed she is totally different on online means she donβt even call me of her own I have tk call her msg her and ehat she do is reply ( on text) but call everything is nice but whenever I call her she donβt answer it and always have a excuse of I am busy and I understand it and leave it but subconsciously it bothers me. Because In my past I have been cheated 2 times and I was like living in hell but now I m overthinking it and have a lot of expectations from her thatβs sit. And I want to get rid of her how should I? Can anyone please explain me I m getting depressed.
Dont overthink just speak up tht you hv in your mind .
Speak with whom?
Someone u trust , if not then share it here
I donβt trust anyone even if I kya farak padta hai unko
If u want to talk we can talk
I have one big msg should I paste it
If there is a option to paste , then paste it .
U can connect too.
Hey I m feeling little rejected and I know why let me tell you guys the story I have been talking to a girl since 2 months and I meet her 2 days ago. We spent a great time I was holding her hand and even she was comfortable with me and we shared things and etc but what I m facing right now is only disappointed she is totally different on online means she donβt even call me of her own I have tk call her msg her and ehat she do is reply ( on text) but call everything is nice but whenever I call her she donβt answer it and always have a excuse of I am busy and I understand it and leave it but subconsciously it bothers me. Because In my past I have been cheated 2 times and I was like living in hell but now I m overthinking it and have a lot of expectations from her thatβs sit. And I want to get rid of her how should I? Can anyone please explain me I m getting depressed.
If she is talking to u thn try to ask her bt if she is not responding weΔΊl then leave tht here.
There is no point to take stress evn if she does not care.
Bt if u genuinely wants to talk to her then give ur connection some time. U hv to lower your expectations and try to understand wht is right for both of u .
How do I low my expectations even if I m busy but my mind still thinks of her and give her time. I donβt know why. Means I m giving more then she deserves man.
Thinking about her is different thing, but expecting from people to behave the way you behave is not good. Try to understand her point of view .
I had suffered alot while kepting too much expectations so please try to convince urself
Which point of view? And for which thing should I convince myself for?
Now when we talk n I just forget everything and start connecting with her man.
Im hst saying to dont except much. Its your wish buddy wht u wanna do . but i think if u r not comfortable thn stop talking . If its bothering you tht much
The problem is that I m more comfortable with her and thatβs why I m getting more expectations and she told me that line i will stop your problem of overthinking and etc. You know what I everyday wait for her to call but at the end of day I call her. And reasons are on their way
