The person I loved and cared does love me back but he takes a lot of things for granted. There is a lot of social pressure and everytime people just want to poke their nose into my matters. No matter how sane I try to be it’s like they pull you down. No one, even my life partner wants to know how I feel why I am feeling low what is it that I am worried about. I tried talking to him about my insecurities. There is a 10 year age gap between us so he never takes me seriously.He brushes it off, sometimes all I need is a hug and a sentence “I am there for you. Dont care what people say”. Coz most of the time I feel he is not honest about how he feels.
Love and care* sorry. I have no idea how it turned to past tense
Are you married? If not reconsider the relationship. You deserve better but if you think he loves you then communicate with him and let him know that you need some emotional support when you are down . You have to let him know your needs then how will he know. He can’t read your mind right?
I am married and I clearly communicate with him about how I feel. His outlook of life is completely different from mine. Can’t do anything about that. So all he gets to say is “I have million issues” " is that even an issue to be worried" and so on and so forth.