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Lia @leelia

The one thing I hate the most is when people don’t trust my judgment because I hate people doubting me and my ability to know what I want and what’s best for me and make decisions accordingly. There’s nothing in the world I hate more than that.

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shiva kumar @shivavolley99

If you are strong in your decision then y don’t skip the people’s talk…and judgement?

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Lia @leelia

What do you mean by that? If you mean i shouldn’t care whether people believe in me or not, i get it but aren’t people around you supposed to support you, encourage you to follow your dreams and do what you want? I hate people that try to stop me and think they know what’s best for me, they don’t know me better than i do.

Ram @ram_1919

Prove yourself and don’t blame them…

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Lia @leelia

Why do I have to prove anything? Aren’t people supposed to believe in me?+ I’ve never once have not made it when I said i could, I’ve never once made a bad decision, I make mistakes like any other human but I hate when people try to control my life and stop me from doing things because “they know what’s best for me” I’m an adult rn and I believe i can make it on my own. I take advice but i won’t stand people trying to control me and stop me from doing what i want to do the most.

Ram @ram_1919

Who told u to give control of u to them, keep ur responsibility in your hands and shine…

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Lia @leelia

I never gave them control but somehow they think they are entitled to control me. I will continue to not listen and just ignore them and do what i know is best for me, however, that doesn’t mean i can’t be mad at them or think they’re wrong bc they are, and they should learn to not be this way.

@shariff2022

You cant skip such judgements… but u can avoid and move on

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Lia @leelia

I know, I was just expressing how much it upsets me when people feel entitled to judge my abilities to make my own decisions and know what’s best for me since no one knows me better than i know myself, and i don’t think people are allowed to interfere in other ppl’s life like that, instead, those people (I’m talking about ppl that are close to me) should support you and encourage you to follow your dreams, believe in you and be happy for your happiness, if they aren’t then they’re just wrong. I know i should avoid it and I rlly do try and that’s what i do most of the time but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t bother me.

@shariff2022

Understood

. It happened to me … and happenig with me… that too by close circle…

Your r right… . I agree with you on the points…

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Chinmay✨ @oye_chinmay

Just ignore them , they will be quite after some time 🤌🏻🥺

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Lia @leelia

thank youuu💜 i see you’re an Army?🥺

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