Lia @leelia
The one thing I hate the most is when people donโt trust my judgment because I hate people doubting me and my ability to know what I want and whatโs best for me and make decisions accordingly. Thereโs nothing in the world I hate more than that.
shiva kumar @shivavolley99
If you are strong in your decision then y donโt skip the peopleโs talkโฆand judgement?
Lia @leelia
What do you mean by that? If you mean i shouldnโt care whether people believe in me or not, i get it but arenโt people around you supposed to support you, encourage you to follow your dreams and do what you want? I hate people that try to stop me and think they know whatโs best for me, they donโt know me better than i do.
Ram @ram_1919
Prove yourself and donโt blame themโฆ
Lia @leelia
Why do I have to prove anything? Arenโt people supposed to believe in me?+ Iโve never once have not made it when I said i could, Iโve never once made a bad decision, I make mistakes like any other human but I hate when people try to control my life and stop me from doing things because โthey know whatโs best for meโ Iโm an adult rn and I believe i can make it on my own. I take advice but i wonโt stand people trying to control me and stop me from doing what i want to do the most.
Ram @ram_1919
Who told u to give control of u to them, keep ur responsibility in your hands and shineโฆ
Lia @leelia
I never gave them control but somehow they think they are entitled to control me. I will continue to not listen and just ignore them and do what i know is best for me, however, that doesnโt mean i canโt be mad at them or think theyโre wrong bc they are, and they should learn to not be this way.
You cant skip such judgementsโฆ but u can avoid and move on
Lia @leelia
I know, I was just expressing how much it upsets me when people feel entitled to judge my abilities to make my own decisions and know whatโs best for me since no one knows me better than i know myself, and i donโt think people are allowed to interfere in other pplโs life like that, instead, those people (Iโm talking about ppl that are close to me) should support you and encourage you to follow your dreams, believe in you and be happy for your happiness, if they arenโt then theyโre just wrong. I know i should avoid it and I rlly do try and thatโs what i do most of the time but that doesnโt mean it doesnโt bother me.
Understood
. It happened to me โฆ and happenig with meโฆ that too by close circleโฆ
Your r rightโฆ . I agree with you on the pointsโฆ
Chinmayโจ @oye_chinmay
Just ignore them , they will be quite after some time ๐ค๐ป๐ฅบ
Lia @leelia
thank youuu๐ i see youโre an Army?๐ฅบ
