The kind of pain I am feeling right now is just too much to bear. 

We were friends from 4 years, we were dating for more than 2 and now she has lost feelings for me? I mean it is possible considering our honeymoon period is overall and all but when you care for a relationship, you try to mend things not like ki seedha give up hi option hai?

We didnt able to talk much in last few months, i think thats why she lost interest in me. Its the first time in 4 years that we didnt talk for almost a day. My heart is paining so much, God please bring her back. Please make her love me plspslspsls

I'm sorry to say but 2 years are long enough time to realise their desires and what they want from relationship don't match.

Sorry not my post.

But i don't feel it's right to say she used him. 2 years is a long time and someone can feel out of it if relationship isn't what she had imagined it to be or has become boring with time. There could be many more reasons to stop having feelings for someone regardless of the number of years one has been into it.

"God help those who help themselves"
Communicate with her. And remember what kind of person you were earlier she  fall for, right now you are not that person. Remember who you are and rest will follow. 

I am also experiencing that same type of pain. It hurts so bad to be separated from Meredith. ￼

Breakup

So me and my girlfriend broke up, because her family was not in our favour. 
Post break up i have done some miserable things which i have apologised for on mail. 
Now she loves me but doesn’t want me back 
What should i do 
She knows that i love her and i regret for what i have done. 
She said she loves me but she doesn’t want me anymore and doesn’t like the person i have turned into. 
Should i clear out things in person or should i let her go because she has told me not to to contact her. 

Love

I don’t understand, every girl that I like that shockingly ends up liking me back and then it’ll just break randomly to a new bf I don’t understand. Like this girl was fucking perfect and all I wanted was her. I just wanted to care for her more than her shitty bf who has cheated does. Like at this point I think its honestly me there’s something that I’m doing that just makes them not want anything and just intentionally fuck with my head. She told me in a different timeline… wtf does that mean. She wants to but is confused and it’s not her fault but fuck I’m so done with shit like this I just want someone that wants me so I can just love someone.

Depression

Last night we didn't talk to each other , she wasn't online and i checked  her message every time but everytime i got nothing. I thought might be she was sick and i was thinking she might have a problem but i totally shocked when i  see her outside my house,  roaming with her friends. There were 4  2 girls and 2 boys,after seeing that i was totally numb. I want time to be freeze i want to see her as much i can but noone is superior than time. Why i am growing soo much feeling for her even she has no time to reply my message . What if i could save that feelimgs and give to that one who deserve. Why i am putting water into sand,My life is like waiting a ship in a airport. I know i will get nothing she wont be mine but why still  i have positive feelings for her? And i have to stop it before it creates any problem in my life. . .   

Delusion

For the past few months we didn't exactly talk but weekly I checked on her to see how she's doing. But it's all ending now and I can't handle it well. 
I was always fascinated by her but now I'm forced to let her go cuz' that's what she wants from my side even though I desperately don't want to lose her. The fact that she thinks our love isn't worthy enough for a second chance hits my whole nerves !! 
However I appreciate her honesty and she learnt to be brutally honest from myself makes me kinda happy for a second though.
  
𝑵𝒐𝒕𝒆 : pls don't date anyone if you're an overthinker or a person with different personalities. Cuz' no matter how good you are to them, if ur other personality hurts them, all they're going to see is only you. Nothing will change their mind. So don't !!

she wants to be friends she told me she loved me she spent 3 months 3 4 hours everyday with me she missed me when i went outside. She wanted to be friends after breakup but now she doesn't reply? did she started hating me for absolutely no fucking reason or she is still in love and doesn't want her feelings to grow?

3am Thoughts

Me and my Partner are just fighting a lot. She has been busy since last 3 days and i need her time and coz of that i am not in good mood. Whenever we talk on call and Msg We end Up urgueing. Everything is messing up. Maybe this will end she is hurting me but she is not ready to accept it. And nor do she makes efforts. She is like u always blame me this that. just fights.. insan kitna b busy ho time nikal ta hai. 


Hii everyone,
So I'm dating a girl to whom I know since 2 years. We are dating since 1 month and everything is nice we both are happy but sometimes my overthinking ruins everything 
I overthink a lot and sometimes i feel like no one can understand me. And due to the fear of not making things worse i end up saying her bye and then she goes mad like i know your mood is off and if you wanna talk about something then talk to me but i feel like she won't understand me and the i say bye to her without telling the reason behind that mood. And later I start apologising for my insane behaviour 
And end up ruining her mood also
I've been through this in the past and i don't want to repeat the same mistake again 
I want to improve my myself and want to get things better with her and myself too
What should i do?

Relationships

I have an issue!! Need advice... there is this girl i really loved! (I still do) but we had our ups and downs... on and off, again and again, and that usually makes me sad, but recently my homies tried to set me up with a girl... we had a whole day to hangout with each other.. (she likes me alot) she is really attractive but im not over the girl i used to be with... they all know about this but still they want this to work out!! The issue is that new girl is super close to one of my homies, if things went south, this will be really bad for all of us!! But i don't love her, how can one survive in this situation??? My mind says its alrr to try this new girl out... but at the same time, i know im not gonna spend my life with her... (im kind of a guy who is into the idea of "date to marry") 

I dont want to hurt her... but now everyone thinks that  me and the new girl can really work out 

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