The guy I'll date is 2 years younger than me ...i don't have any problem but will my indian parents be fine with it?

Yes sure they will but before that you have to provide them a good and strong reason to marry him 

Don't you think you should speak to them and ask that? 

3am Thoughts

Do loyal and good hearted people who get heartbroken and cheated upon are ever able to move on ? Do they truly get what they deserve ? 

My ex and I broke up a few years ago, but again reconnected over a friends wedding. I know there was no future as the guy didn't have guts to tell his parents and wanted to take next step in relationship ( that's what he told me or maybe there was some other reason that I will never know) but still I kept talking because there was an emotional attachment and also out of loneliness. But suddenly he decided to again cutoff after few months which I knew will happen though I still was hopeful that things might get better or person will realize my worth someday, but that never happened.

To my surprise, after an year I came to know that guy is getting married. Now I connect the dots and reason of sudden cutoff. I really felt heartbroken and sad because that person agrees to marry some girl he has only know for a few weeks but not the one they have known for years instead considers them as an option and use them emotionally until new one walks in. I know I should have taken stand for myself and should not have been in touch, but I was silly to not understand his intentions or just hoped that things might change. 

Now the person has moved on but I still feel bad for myself, and always wonder that will I ever able to move on from this because I was really invested in the relationship and loved this person from all my heart. Even though I am a strong person but still I feel stuck sometimes and don't know how to make myself feel better.

Breakup

People have been making me feel like a slut for this but i seriously wanna know if am in the wrong or it’s just society blaming the girl as always , there’s this guy who likes me and my friend came and told me about it , a few weeks back that guy texted me and we started talking, this whole time i knew that he liked me but I couldn’t say anything because then my friend was gonna be in trouble, fast forward to yesterday he confessed and i told him that i knew about his feelings all along, he said he knew about me knowing which am not surprised about as i am a obvious person, i asked him if he was okay and if he wanted to continue to be my friend or if he wants to stop talking or keep his distance, i was okay with anything because here it was about his feelings more than mine and i liked having him as a friend. 
Now the problem is , almost all my close friends are being like “you are playing with his feelings by talking to him” , “you shouldn’t give him false hopes, you’ll break his heart”
See , i get it but if he doesn’t mind being friends then why would i…? People have been saying that am just doing it for attention and I don’t like him and that am just playing with his feelings 
I have cleared myself to him about my feelings and i asked about what he wants to do
If tomorrow he says that being friends with me is hurting him then I won’t force him to be friends with me , I’ll simply let him choose himself 

Exhausted

I have a question on my mind and i want you all to answer it.

Recently I told you that there was a guy in my life with whom I was not dating but we were more than friends. I was interested on him after on our very first talk. At that time, i was going through a breakup and the guy I like now, he knows about my breakup. After sometime, my ex came back and asked me to wait for him regarding marriage. I agreed to my ex to wait for him but he left me after an argument so I decided not to go back to him. I told this to the guy I like. Hardly a week after, I realised I love this guy. So I confessed my feelings to him. He said he loves me too. 

Now the problem is, he keeps talking about s@x most of the time which I don't like. I have told him about this but he keeps insisting it in some or the other way. His pros is that he asks about my mental health too and my other problems too. But he doesn't want to commit to me as he wishes to focus on his career or provide any relationship security and still wants to be more than friends and talk about s@x related things.

I am being as friends with him now and asked him to be with me as friends. It's not really working, i get jealous when he talks to multiple girls.

I broke up with my boyfriend whom i met on tinder. We were in a serious relationship since past 3 months but i used to think about our future. He wishes to get married after 5 years and i cannot wait for five years

So today I am going to tell you my story I like a guy and I don't whether he like me back but we are pretty good friends. Just giving a backdrop he has so many mood swings sometimes he will literally act like he is your boyfriend and sometimes he will act like he even don't know you.

But today something different happen, means he is getting even closer to me in terms of friendship and keep checking on me but today when we are in school bus so I was standing in the bus and was studying something. He was behind me and I didn't realized that he pat on my neck and then asked me to come with him when I agreed he literally grabbed my waist and it was like heart blow out I was really nervous and didn't knew how to react but when he left my waist it was like a whole big explosion in my head, heart which I can't even explain through words.

I don't know was it just a friend gesture or was it something. I even don't want to know or plan it I just want to live in the moment.


LGBTQ

I am in a very confusing phase of life i have a boyfriend who was not giving me enough time and acted toxic for 2 years but suddenly he is so much transformed and he told everything about us to his like he wants to marry me we are from different communities He is hard-core nonveg eater and i m pure veg but that's not the nor its like i don't want to marry but the thing is he is just moody one time he acts like he really loves me and the other times he gets cold hearted we both are not settled my family wont accept him and plus we are in long distance so we have not not spend enough time with each other to understand and move forward to marriage but now he is like and i m scared now because i told my mother about him and she said that she is not ok with this the family and guy have mindset and i can't let u goo so far after marriage she is concerned about the future because we don't have good understanding build between both of us and i m now confused should i give up or try because this men changes mood every now and than and treats according to that i can't live my whole life like this yeah i love him but marriage is about whole life he wants me to compromise everything for him just because i m female i have to be according to his family that's what he and her mother wants and her mother is pressurising us like u have to marry in 2 years any how doesn't matter u r settled or not and i haven't settled in my carrer now i can't sacrifice my family and carrer for marriage...

Adulting

The guy I like isn't really talking to me today, I don't know maybe he is going through some stuff or he just doesn't feel like talking, we both like each other but i don't want to feel clingy while double texting, mhmm I hate that i over think so much 

Overthinking

Actually the thing is that....i am an introvert and i dont have many close friends to share my secrets with which i had felt bad about....So this was 2years back when i met my bf. He is my classmate and when i met him for the first time i felt he was more like a fun loving person(fact is that i liked his way of speaking and fun like never before....but i did not take it seriously).It was the first year of college when i met him.He had a female friend in the same class to whom he was very much close more like a lover that  she used to share everything with him even the most personal things(even the physical things) about her relationship......They were very close friends like she has even told him that she would have accepted if he were to propose her..... I became even more of just an acquaintance to him during the 3rd  semester exam study leaves through FB.At that time he was upset as his friend was not talking to him....He complained that she ignores him when her boyfriend comes....So i just consoled him that bestfriend always has a special place in the heart n that she too will have...We had frequent chats during that time.....I became more close to him(as a friend) that i even failed for an exam due to anxiety as we had a fight during the chat and he was not talking to me....after the exams he went back to her N life was the same to me again though he was in touch with me....He had this habit of having fun by making her jealous but knowingly talking about other female friends which he used to tell me when he tells my name to her....But i was a person who knew little about possessiveness  that i used to ask him that y is she so much frustrated when he does so....One day she got so much mad at him that they stopped talking when he told her about me since the previous days...i advised him to go n talk to her ...That day he talked to her and the problem was solved but i felt a little sad when i saw him with her....When i was commuting back home after college by bus i had to control my tears when i saw them chatting even in the bus.He consoled me that day through chat. After few days he broke up with his friend and the reason was me which i came to know a few days back.After that incident, i used tell him to go back to her(even if i would feel sad).....but he was angry at her that he refused.After few months of friendship ,he proposed me as he didnot want to lose me but not out of love.But i could not leave him as i loved him so much and was very happy.He was sincere in this relationship and he still is.Now, his old friend has started talking to him....But she loves him so much n also misses him which she has told him but she doesnt become that close thinking that i would feel bad and he also has a deep connection with her in his heart.... He still has this  habit of making both of us jealous and insecure by telling about the other person's name .I also have so so sooo much of this guilty feeling that i was the reason for their breakup that i want to give him back to her as i feel that he like her from the depth of his heart (But he was the only person close to my heart😖)....What do i do????....Should i leave him forcefully saying some other reason so that he is back with his bestest friend ever(he has told me that) and also i can get rid of this guilty feeling .......He says that 
he cant lose me but not her either as he feels some kind of connection with her...... Someone help me(Sorry for this long note and my bad English)

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