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The brother which I have and me don’t talk at all we hate each other from childhood , he was not there at all for me when I needed , didn’t took care of me , when I needed any help he will not help me at all , but when I see other brothers helping their sisters and having that affection ,I feel bad for myself as bcz I have no friends also , in college also I have learned everything myself struggled when there was no one to help, ignored , at crucial moments also he didn’t help me , he will criticized from childhood and we are more like strangers to each other only,my parents (toxic) even support him and also crticize me and didn’t get love from family from childhood. We hate each other as much that even if I had talked it will be like fake talk with each other. We have stopped talking from from years now I mean it doesn’t count bcz we never talked at all nicely .


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Seems like a golden child. They only help when it fits their agenda and seems to serve their ulterior motives.

Your brother may be insecure about himself so he may always try to put you down to feel better about himself. This means you are sorted and are a decent human being capable of loving others without any conditions. This is what he may be jealous of. Toxic parents support the golden child out of their selfish needs too. They want someone who can be their retirement support and someone they can control by showering love and abuse. It’s a sick game. You are better off without either if them. Do you still have a relationship with them? If yes why do you feel obliged to be in one? Is it inner guilt which the parents and siblings condition you with? Sorry, if I am asking too much out if you.