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Suddenly my bf is ignoring me. Does it mean he is not anymore interested in me? Should I need to be always the first one to text?

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TANISHPREET @tanishpreet_s

No if he really is concerned about u he will text u

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Hope @cureplace

you are over thinking

Sanket @sanket

It actually shouldnt matter who initiates first, the thing that should matter is that how the response is after initiation

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Raj Chauhan @raj1403

Okay so let me tell you how men act.
Before you get in a relationship the boy will constantly try to pursue you.
After you accept him, he will start taking you for granted.
He will not try to talk to you as much as he used to try to talk to you earlier.

In some cases it is just normal.

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Raj Chauhan @raj1403

Please understand that if he is ignoring you that means he is trying to teach you how to live your life without him.
If he is not going to be the one for you then I suppose this is good you are being trained to be emotionally independent.

A girl will always understand red flags in a relationship. If he is ignoring you and if he is not taking care of you and if he is not emotionally involved with you then I suppose you should really consider taking him for granted.

But if you think he really loves you then you should give him the taste of his own medicine.

Ignore him and get busy with some hobby.

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Anonymous

Don’t listen to anyone 🙄🙄
Really why you guys wanna break her relationship
See talk to him about it clear everything
Talk to him about how you feel
Sometimes we overthink cuz we don’t know the truth

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Prabhakar M N @mnpsatan13

Try to recall what could have made him ignore you. Was it your earlier actions, or he is like that only. Or something else. When you figure out the chain of events you’ll understand better. If it’s because of him don’t bother. If it’s because of you or someone else, then you reach out to him.

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Joy @joyforlife

I don’t think it’s gonna work for so long. Sometimes we feel like we are making more efforts but sometimes we actually make efforts more to make it work. In both situations it’s clear that the guy is not much interested. It will always end up with pain. Better you understand on time.

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Anonymous

Hey there!

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Anonymous

How old is the relationship

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Anonymous

Break up

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Anonymous

No let him text first sometimes

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