Stress affects my exam scores and I don't know what to do about it, I can solve every equation at home or during lessons but I stress too much during the tests and I just forget everything. I'm so mad at myself.

School

I have my neet exam on Sunday.  pls help me I am not able to Conc on my studies 
I don't want to give up now 😪😪  

Competition

To reach my goal,my dream and my passion,I have to study(everyone has to).But I sometimes feel bored and lose my interest. Some kind of resistance has come within me.Before,I used to feel very guilty if I didnt study.i used to feel really very bad.But now I don't feel it.I need to study.And one more thing,I am not properly able to keep away from my phone.Can anyone pls help?

Confusion

What is it that I am avoiding when I like to watch movies over giving mocks, 
What is it that i am avoiding when i go to shopping sprees when i can easily study concepts,
What is it that I am avoiding when i close the test window as soon as i see the questions aren't easy,
what is it I am avoiding when i deactivate my insta,
And what is it that i am avoiding when I am typing my thoughts right here and not doing what I really should do.


I am avoiding Failure, just denying that i need to work harder, so I am hiding behind the shadows of distractions and calling myself stressed. I am scared to fail again. I have failed at Exams, Relationships and friendships all in a span of one year and I just don't wanna see it any more. It hurts me, it breaks me. But not looking at it does not mean its not there. Avoiding my feelings is never the answer. It never was and it never will be. 

So lets face what i have to face. If i fail, I fail. But if I win, I win big. 
Cheers to giving yourself a chance to win big!

Growing Up

Plss koi mere depression ko durr krdo mujhse pdai nhi ho rhi or mere exams h 14 may se CA ke  I am not able to study even a single second 

Depression

I missed my exam today because of reschedule and the funny thing is it was just me who missed it because apparently all of the 'friends' i thought I had weren't really my friend and they didn't care to drop me a message eventhough I told them I would be in the library. Fun fact- i travelled 1000 km just for this exam and now they're "sorry". Funny!

Failure

Okay this is gonna be a long post with some ground realities, so the language won't be fairy tales and I feel this is necessary for the young folks who are gonna sit for entrance exams. 
First let me start with few truths for entrance exam kids. 
Your main focus should be to crack entrance exams. You got to make a simple plan and a schedule to follow to support your plan. Strategize your target score on realistic grounds and work on it. Sounds good right, now here's the distractions that will come in this 
1. Friends - yes, friends are a distraction. Especially those who are not serious about entrance exams. You don't wanna be those guys who don't study but chill and waste time around. ( If you're the time pass friend, pls don't bother the serious guys, you might as well just focus on passing school and enjoy this phase, no issues with that, completely fine, just don't bother the serious guys.)  Only have like minded friends who work hard and help you . (Don't go for toxic friends too, who demoralise or make fun of you, stay away from them too)
2. Gf/ bf. My recommendation in short : Don't get into relationship. Just simply don't. You'll save yourself from a lot of trouble. Some might think, but 'what about crushes?' , well here's a fact. You and your crush most probably won't see each other after your exams. (You mostly end up going in different places , same holds true for your friends in schools and coaching too ) so don't bother too much about them. Just simply don't. If you already are in a relationship , well , truth be told , chances are you would end up having a break up. So don't give it much importance. 
Learn to control your emotions properly in this stage. It will help you life long. 
3. Not interested in studies and phone : I have a simple solution to this. Just study for 2 months seriously. Start small, solve problems. If you get stuck, get help and learn some more. There's a simple trick to motivate yourself. Reward with a break day every month.  Also , everyday, for an hour, do what you want. No studies. 
This pretty much discuss major distractions. Also yes parents ka and peer pressure exist . It's okay to feel pressure. That one hour break everyday is to release that pressure. I would recommend you play some sport but then again, it's a personal choice and do what relaxes you the most . Music, dance , light reading anything but study.

Note for people who took a drop : don't let the pressure get to you. You made a brave choice. Be proud that you dare choose to drop for dream. Not many have that guts to do. You will do fine . 

Exam

So I have a test to take right now and I am completely freaking out because I haven't been doing very well on my other tests and I am just afraid that if I don't do well on this test I will consider it as a 
setback and feel bad about not scoring well and cry for the entire weekend probably try to pick myself back on Monday so should I take the test or not or am I just trying to protect myself

I am very anxious for my results.
I pray it goes well.
🤞🤞🤞

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