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Anonymous

Soooooo… i need your take on this. please try putting yourself in my scenario and tell me how would you feel and what do you do
Ok so me and boyfriend broke up since march. (messy,stupid and childish reason honestly) and i did not get closure to many things. Not even a proper breakup.
since then i have removed him from everywhere. did not block just remove. Fast forward now, i uploaded a story in whatsapp and after few minutes (5 mins) he replied to it, then asked me how i was doing. (surprised he even has my number saved ) I answered but then he ignored until next day and told me he was busy with work ( he was not, saw him online a few times and it was in the AM’s so obv no work) and then i answered and since then no answer.
So, what i want to know now. I keep overthinking our relationship and that we could have worked it out. So do i get my closure. or does he not care anymore? (since he did not answer me right away and did not even speak to me after all these months) .Also why would he even reply to my story if he doesn’t care? right? or am i just mixing everything up? it feels like he is mind gaming me but i know he isn’t that kind of a person… so idk
How would u guys think experiencing something similar to this?

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Sanket @sanket

Make it simple, want clsoure? Just ask him, nothing else, thinking will make it more complicated

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Anonymous

Baby girl sometimes silence is an answer too. You can’t always get the closure you want sometimes you have to create it. If he was worth trying again he wouldn’t be playing games like that with you. Sending you lots of love and I hope everything goes well!❤

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