Soo, there is this boy (X) i have liked for a very long time, but he lives in Delhi, and i live in pune. I msg him daily and only think about him all day long. Today, i had a very hectic day and didn’t have time to see my phone. And now i just noticed that he has never messaged me first he did at the start when we used to talk. I think there is another girl or maybe he isn’t interested anymore. For comparison, there is this other boy (Y) we were in the same school and he is 2 year older than me and he is currently in Mumbai completing his further studies we are like best friend we both message eachother whenever we are free and i am his first priority, at least that’s what i think. So, what should i do? Should i prioritise the Y or X? I am so confused rn
If Y prioritizes you, you should prioritize him. If X never texts first let him go
It’s hard cause i have loved X for the past 2 years, and i don’t know how i feel about Y
That’s the problem, I am not saying you’re a problem but that’s the problem with us. We ignore the person who actually put efforts. Ask you about your day, ask how you are or know something is up to you even when you don’t say. We accept the live we think we deserve. If he doesn’t put any efforts then why should we go towards someone like that
It’s different. First of all, I don’t ignore him. We are best friends, and i could never leave him. And it’s not compulsory to date every person who is nice to you. I just don’t like him in that way.
I was just saying it, it was generic. You got triggered for no reason. If he has feelings for you and you don’t then and he isn’t aware of it and you’re keeping him around just becasue he’s nice to you than you’re the problem. By ignore I meant, we don’t catch feelings for someone like that not literally ignore them
Ask him why he didn’t msg and if he didn’t feel the same for you then move on. Doesn’t matter how much you love him but you gotta choose yourself first,
Yepp, i will surely confront him.
Açha Bacha @soft_forest_2
Mitr jaha apki feelings ki kadar ho waha raho jaise ki koi baad mai ye na kahe ki aap ne unhe message kiya tha humesha unho ne nhi aur jo bhi aisa kahega ye sunkar apko thesh pahuchegi
Yepp thanks for the advice
Açha Bacha @soft_forest_2
It’s my pleasure mitr keep smiling 😊
