Soo recently it’s like my bf had a lot of family issues and i understand and like everytime it’s like he has a problem or something he goes into a dark space and i try soo hard to let him out of it and I doo but these things affect me a lot. It’s like recently when he had this i felt like he was draining my positivity away. Like yess he iss great and maybe trying but I can’t see it feel it. It’s like i no longer a happy positive person anymore. I love him but at the same time scared to love him because i can’t let him hurt me again i just can’t . Because it’s hard and i don’t knoww i am just soo scared and he is not even doing anything to make me feel less of it
he is having a hard time like you said
it would be selfish if you only think about your positivity
you happiness
if you love him try to help him out
just be there
he’ll be back to normal
Just be with him the presence of yours will get him out of him and listen to whatever he says just listen!
Just give him some time. Things will get better.