Sometimes parents say such things in anger that it becomes hard to forget their words… After sometime when they get calm they want you to act as everything is okay just normal but what they forget to realise is that their words hurt us deep down and they leave a mark… a certain kind of insecurity if i may say… and then they act the same next time even though they said they will not the last time and the cycle continues…
Why is everything legal for parents lol
But Indian parents don’t believe in change…so can’t do anything about it
They feel like they are being attacked and we don’t understand their problems when we try to communicate to them about how much those one time harsh words can cause the pain.
I know dude… we can’t correct them also
I relate to it so much. I can feel your pain. In anger they don’t even think twice before saying such mean words. And it’s so sad that they don’t even realise how much those words can hurt you.