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Sometimes I wonder if I will ever move on
Because till now I keep thinking that he will leave his wife and come back to me and we will get married.

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Anonymous
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Kaaku?

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Anonymous
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Yes

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Anonymous
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I missed your post so much. I thought you moved on

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Why did you miss it??
Donโ€™t you want me to move on??
I kept myself very busy for the last few days, but since last 2 days Iโ€™m not busy, and all I do is keep thinking about him.

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Obv i want you to move on. Just in general

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Some days itโ€™s better, some days it feels like I havenโ€™t made any progress.
I donโ€™t post here as often as I did before because when i post and then someone comments on it then I again start getting flashback of all the memories

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Anonymous
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And I still think sheโ€™ll leave her husband and weโ€™ll get married someday

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Anonymous
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But deep down you know itโ€™s not gonna happen ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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Anonymous
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Exactly. Then why to waste our time rather we should focus on improving ourselves, shouldnโ€™t we?
Kismat me likha hoga to ho jayega nahi to nahi hoga

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How to stop myself from thinking about him??
I kept myself busy for days and during those days I wasnโ€™t thinking about him, but now when Iโ€™m not busy, Iโ€™m again thinking about him

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Anonymous
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Lets keep ourselves busy then. How were you busy if youโ€™d like to tell me? Job or school or college or hobby or passion?

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Anonymous
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Job and hobby
But there isnโ€™t much to do in office now and for how much time can i watch movies or read books in a day

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Find something else then. Up skill, but donโ€™t try to stalk him itโ€™ll only make things tougher and resist you from moving on. Itโ€™ll take time because we loved them from our hearts and seeing them with someone else making a bond for a lifetime hurts even more and nobody can know it better than me. But we cannot ruin our lives right? They are happy in their life and with their life partner, we must accept this and stop putting them on a pedestal and look them for who they are. They broke our hearts knowingly, we cannot keep breaking OUR hearts for them

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Anonymous
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Yes, I understand
How much time does it take to move on??

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Anonymous
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Idk I havenโ€™t moved on yet completely but I have started to detach, things that used to bother me doesnโ€™t bother me anymore. Maybe because I have absolutely no idea about whatโ€™s going on in her life

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I see
Thanks for sharing

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I know its easier said than done but please try. Otherwise weโ€™ll be 2 preys of dips pre sion thatโ€™s it. We would neglect people who actually care for us, saying this from personal experience

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I know
I have been neglecting someone who actually cares and that hurts me even more, that he is suffering because of me
And the person because of whom Iโ€™m suffering is enjoying his life to the fullest

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See you get it. Moving on is not something, youโ€™ll have an epiphany and other day youโ€™ll wake up with no memories of him. No. Healing is a slow process, give yourself time find someone to talk to about these things, donโ€™t keep it bottled up makes it worse. Some days itโ€™ll be like you wonโ€™t feel like doing anything, his me.ories will hit you constantly that is when you have stick with yourself and refrain yourself from going back to him, at that time donโ€™t beat yourself up but keep reminding yourself theyโ€™re happy in their lives, even I deserve happiness, I deserve better, I deserve someone whoโ€™ll be reassuring and wonโ€™t leave me

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Anonymous
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Okay
Thank you โ˜บ๏ธ

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Hey

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Hi

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Want to connect?

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No

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