Sometimes I wonder if I will ever move on
Because till now I keep thinking that he will leave his wife and come back to me and we will get married.
Yes
I missed your post so much. I thought you moved on
Why did you miss it??
Don’t you want me to move on??
I kept myself very busy for the last few days, but since last 2 days I’m not busy, and all I do is keep thinking about him.
Obv i want you to move on. Just in general
Some days it’s better, some days it feels like I haven’t made any progress.
I don’t post here as often as I did before because when i post and then someone comments on it then I again start getting flashback of all the memories
And I still think she’ll leave her husband and we’ll get married someday
But deep down you know it’s not gonna happen 😭
Exactly. Then why to waste our time rather we should focus on improving ourselves, shouldn’t we?
Kismat me likha hoga to ho jayega nahi to nahi hoga
How to stop myself from thinking about him??
I kept myself busy for days and during those days I wasn’t thinking about him, but now when I’m not busy, I’m again thinking about him
Lets keep ourselves busy then. How were you busy if you’d like to tell me? Job or school or college or hobby or passion?
Job and hobby
But there isn’t much to do in office now and for how much time can i watch movies or read books in a day
Find something else then. Up skill, but don’t try to stalk him it’ll only make things tougher and resist you from moving on. It’ll take time because we loved them from our hearts and seeing them with someone else making a bond for a lifetime hurts even more and nobody can know it better than me. But we cannot ruin our lives right? They are happy in their life and with their life partner, we must accept this and stop putting them on a pedestal and look them for who they are. They broke our hearts knowingly, we cannot keep breaking OUR hearts for them
Yes, I understand
How much time does it take to move on??
Idk I haven’t moved on yet completely but I have started to detach, things that used to bother me doesn’t bother me anymore. Maybe because I have absolutely no idea about what’s going on in her life
I see
Thanks for sharing
I know its easier said than done but please try. Otherwise we’ll be 2 preys of dips pre sion that’s it. We would neglect people who actually care for us, saying this from personal experience
I know
I have been neglecting someone who actually cares and that hurts me even more, that he is suffering because of me
And the person because of whom I’m suffering is enjoying his life to the fullest
See you get it. Moving on is not something, you’ll have an epiphany and other day you’ll wake up with no memories of him. No. Healing is a slow process, give yourself time find someone to talk to about these things, don’t keep it bottled up makes it worse. Some days it’ll be like you won’t feel like doing anything, his me.ories will hit you constantly that is when you have stick with yourself and refrain yourself from going back to him, at that time don’t beat yourself up but keep reminding yourself they’re happy in their lives, even I deserve happiness, I deserve better, I deserve someone who’ll be reassuring and won’t leave me
Okay
Thank you ☺️
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