Sometimes I just feel aloneā¦even if u had given the best out of u but still people never acknowledge your efforts.
I felt like its my responsibility to take care of my closed ones, to be there for them always but what I realised is they are not there in my lows.
Not even my family members but my partner also has no idea about what I m going through.
All the time they expect me to b the best but they have no tym to understand my feelings. Is this fair?
Should I choose hurting myself bcz they are my family or should I quit my responsibility?
What kind of responsibility you are taking? For managing these. Guess. Sharing and discussing works.
Responsibility means I am taking care of all their needsā¦I understand their requirements before they tell me about thatā¦I took care of their smallest things too bcz I love themā¦I took out time for them whatever situation it may bā¦but I realise that they donāt have time for meā¦whatever I do for them they take my love as grantedā¦
Yes itās tough. Have u communicated your feelings with your family members. Have clear expectations will help
I tried and sometimes I think why I m like thisā¦why I am an emotional person. Why other persons behaviour decides my happinessā¦why canāt I b a practical personā¦I do a lot for my family. Is the solution to this thing is that I should stop fulfilling their needs???
Seems you are married, and your partner is not understanding you is the main cause of tension, whatās your partner words when you discuss it with him/her
I m not married but engaged to someone for the past 2years. My family likes him a lotā¦but he is a kind of busy personā¦he hardly makes time for meā¦whenever I need him he is not thereā¦ whenever I m crying he leaves me aloneā¦during fights he become so rudeā¦he would say harsh words like I donāt need u in my lifeā¦u make my life hell nd after a certain period he came out and say sorry nd feel guilty nd take me out for dates nd again after 2-3 days the cycle gets repeatedā¦
