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@theapplegirl

Sometimes I feel useless that nobody wants me and that makes me sad and feel miserable about it. I don’t have many frnds. I’m not that social.

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snktmore
@snktmore

Why do feel disconnected? Did any incident recently or while growing up happened in your life? How do you react to people when they feel interested to talk/interact with you?

t
@theapplegirl

Many events happened that have led me to create a bubble around myself. I don’t have any relationship frnds who understand me. They just use me. Im not able to share anything with my family too coz they don’t understand whenever I have tried they start taking it from the negative side. I never had a boyfriend. I have never lived my life to the fullest. N this thought makes me really weak. Whenever any person talks softly or politely to me I think that that the person is trying to use me for his/her own purpose. Coz ppl r never polite to me. They judge me. Scorn me n call me clumsy. Is it wrong to be clumsy?

snktmore
@snktmore

We live in a society where people believe everyone should behave in a certain way which they feel is normal. Anyone behaving differently are abnormal. Which is bad! But you should also remember not all people behave similarly. Due to prolong feeling of unworthiness you feel every one is using you for their benefit. You need to burst the bubble you have created. Change your outlook towards life. It doesn’t matter if you have friends or boyfriend you should enjoy your own company. Parents aren’t able to help most of the time because they have different perception of their life.

I’ll suggest you to do self analysis and start having belief in people.Do something that makes “you” feel happy. Learn something new out of your comfort. Not taking any action for yourself will make no difference. You need to develop constructive thought process. If you still feel none is working then seek professional help to tackle it. I’m certain you will come out if it without any help.

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@theapplegirl

I tried to learn new things but I still think smthing is missing smthin feels empty and it’s not that fun. Im not able to figure out what is it that makes it completely void. I love dancing n gradually it’s slowing down n m losing interest in it. Though I love songs and singing n I still love singing. Will that help me in any case?

snktmore
@snktmore

Absolutely, do whatever makes you feel better. Music is a therapy in itself. It can heal you in most beautiful way. While you can sing learn to play a instrument or listen to violin, saxophone, piano, cello. These instruments are most therapeutic.

t
@theapplegirl

Thanks for cheering me up!

snktmore
@snktmore

I’m glad! 🥂