Sometimes I feel bad and I don’t know what bothers me…
Today I drove plus half an hour for free with my teacher… and I just feel bad cause I didn’t have to pay. I was happy first than now i feel something is wrong.
What if he wanted me to pay but he didn’t know how to say it or I don’t know ???
Mika Virtanen @wombfruit
He/she/IT propably didnt want payment. Feels just like something Nice to do for someone
You need to get rid of this mentality that you dont deserve good things. It is hard to get out of that head space but it is possible, and it takes a lot of work. I used to be like that too and after months of therapy I finally got out of it. And besides that, look at it this way, an adult has money, they know how to spend it. When people offer you gifts/their time, take it and be grateful, dont feel bad. My boyfriend always feels bad when i spend money on him, and i tell him its okay, i can manage my finances, im grown. same thing goes for youre teacher
