Something that I learned this year; If thereβs something bothering you but you know you wonβt do anything about it, then stop thinking about it completely. Donβt think about what you βshould doβ if you know yourself well enough to know you arenβt capable of doing it. Over-thinking is only worth it when youβre planning to take action. It prepares you for the situation thatβs about to happen, but if itβs not gonna happen then youβre going through it in your head for no reason and that can be quite traumatic. Youβre basically going through that specific situation, itβs just that itβs on your head instead of in real life, however, it can still affect you, a lot, perhaps even more than how the actual thing would.
The advice Iβd want to give myself from the past. Now I just donβt think about doing what I know I wonβt, not right now. What has to happen will at the right time and by itself ( not always but in my situation, I think so + itβs what i plan if u can even call that a plan)
aprajita @aprajita09
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