Something I’ve found that has helped me with not needing closure with my previous relationship was writing down exactly how I feel throughout the relationship, positive and negative, and just when I would be in their company or if I felt I NEEDED to get something off my chest. It took me 3 months to go back and read through it all and I saw how poorly I was treated and I felt I didn’t want to associate with them anymore. It showed me why things ended and showed me how I could improve. However, this only works if you are 100% honest in it. You aren’t fooling anyone by lying to yourself. Absolutely advise it to anyone starting out a relationship and is feeling committed. If it works out it can be an amazing present to show the other person what they mean to you and how they make you feel.

3am Thoughts

new city, no friends, no one to talk to, no one to call or text, no one to go out with. 

Lonely

Many ways

Hey, 
So I decided to leave this app (again) 

I always had this thought ki yaha kuch log & kuch cheeze sach m gems hai.. But honestly kachra usse kahi jyada hai & I'm not strong enough ki uss kachre ko nazarandaaz kr sku😟

Someone was asking help to get attention in college.. And that's fine.. And someone said "divide cloth by 2, attention will multiply"  WHAT THE!!!!, and the other person said Focus on 🍑, WHAT?? where are we heading towards?? Are you guys even understand the situation?? 

Aur yaha ladkiyon k post toh khol bhi mt lena, mujhe soch k ghin aa rhi hai ki mai inn logo k saath hun.. 
And I'm crying, yeh sochte huye ki inn post k authors ko kaisa feel ho rha hoga, can you guys even understand that!!
and I said to someone, ki if you don't understand - don't comment, instead of stop commenting, he became attacking, god-damnn, Pause for a second and think what are you even typing..!! 

I thought ki itne log ban hone k baad yeh app shyd bht better ban gya hoga, and that's why I thought about giving it a try.. But unfortunately😕

Stay strong everyone out there (not just girls), some people are really good, but it's never ever ever easy to find them. 

Bye guys. 

Overwhelmed with emotions, He was finding his pen with utmost restlessness.

I guess, those words of his and the paper that was to be inked was more important than his tears.

He started writing, with a complete silence in his room. The clock struck twelve and He was all alone with his words.

In ears it was  Sufi music in his earpods, which I guess he had played to avoid the silence. In eyes were the tears. The lips were murmuring the emotions and mind was pampering himself, cherishing the cheerful moments which were by now the mere memories. In heart was the fear of facing tomorrow. But still there was a little relaxation because of an idea of killing himslelf, ending everything hence making things completely easy. However the rate of flowing water from his eyes increased with a very flashback of the dreams he was to accomplish which for now, remained washed away by the very tears and the ultimatum he had set himself to. Tears continued with increasing speed as the heart found a simile with the lyrical piece he was listening to.

In the practice of erasing the very silence, he raised the volume to seventy, hundred being the highest, but stood failed, for, the quietness was carved for him.

A war was set in his mind.

On one hand, He  was tired. Tired of thinking, planning, lying and living. On the other, his very dreams stood holding him little finger, pulling him down and not letting him go. Not letting him set himself free from the shackles of emptiness.

Slowly listening to the music, with tears still flowing and mind fighting between the two ways, he fell asleep.

And one another night was spent fighting the tiredness.

Irked he was,

Not of people around, but of himself;

Not of destiny, but of his expectations;

Not of hopelessness, but of impatience,

For, he was very tired, holding the weight of the responsibilities.

For, he was tired of living.

Breakup

Heyy guys
I'm an 18 year old med student.
So it's been like 6 months since I started med school and I kind of don't have any friends at the moment. The people here are really weird . They act like your friends but they'll be bitching about you behind your back and I've tried talking to a lot of people but everyone has let met down. Now I've reached a point where I'm scared to talk to , to trust anyone . But it's getting really lonely here . I've always been a talkative,happy person but this place is changing me in a way that I don't feel like talking to anyone . There are days when I don't get out of my room the entire day . 
With the kind of people that are here , I Don't want to make any friends becoz I'm tired of being hurt . I just want to normalise being alone , like I want to be alone but not feel lonely , instead be completely okay with it and I don't know how to do that .

i am feeling depressed and my life is fully in crisis .dnt know what to do

I'm very upset
Living a life without father is too hard for me, after the death of my father I'm very upset i missed him every single moment of my life, and Behavior of the society and the people who can't see me happy and creating problems for me every day and realising that I can't be happy like them I don't have right to be happy in my own life
Sometimes I think I should die. But after watching my mother I wanna live more she is my inspiration and my strength
I love my mamma. She is the only one who understands me



Women Empowerment

I didn't exactly understand under what category to put this, but this seemed most appropriate to me. Here's something that annoys me a little bit. So earlier women were married off early and not given the opportunity to work/be their own decision makers. Cut to 2018, now we're judged if we do want to get married. I mean i don't understand, the double standards just do not seem to end. And all this in the name of feminism. That's actually not right. If someone wishes to get married, start a family in their near future, when they're of the right age obviously, then I think there needs to be as much freedom and acceptance given to that as opposed to someone who does not see marriage in the near future. Men and Women, when at the right intellect and maturity level, deserve to dream about what would make them happy and not just how successful they wish to be in their careers. And don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that professional success is inversely related to one's family life. I think one criteria does not fit all and we need people of all kinds to make this world vibrant and so we should let each to their own and really just stop judging now. Really, it's high time. 

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