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Never give up @ava

Someone wants to close to me he is a very old man and I am just 19 years old. I respect him because he drops me at Tim Horton without any charge.he is an Uber man. Sometimes he rubbed on my hand and touch my hand and many times say I love you and I want strong women like you.and he also teaching me to drive.and he said he wants to give me iPhone that he bought two months ago.and he explained that why he doing that. Becuse he like women as I am.he said he also respect me. I don’t know I should be in touch with him or not he call me tomorrow for coffee and teach driving the car. I am very confused about what I should do?

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Palak Agarwal @palakag

I feel the only thing that matters is your mental peace. If you feel good and comfortable around that man then you can go else you shouldn’t. Think of yourself and your parents then whatever you feel is good for you, do it. If at any place you are feeling awkward, then don’t go with that step. I wish this will help you somewhat to get over your confusion. 😇

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Never give up @ava

Yes, I felt comfortable but after 2 days his behave changed. He said He loves me, respects me, wants to give iPhone and needs women like me. I don’t want to be the target of any abuse.

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Palak Agarwal @palakag

See…u have the answer…if you know u don’t want to be the target of any abuse and you know he his trying to touch you n all…N also he is much bigger than you…So I feel you shouldn’t go much closer to the person. Rest is your take. Its your life😇

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Never give up @ava

Ok, mam.Thanks

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Simran @st1199

Hi!
I think just because he makes you learn driving and drops you somewhere for free doesn’t mean you have to take that advantage at the cost of your own safety. NOTHING COMES FOR FREE IN LIFE. YOU PAY FOR EVERYTHING IN ONE MANNER OF THE OTHER. Keep this in mind!

You said he is a very old man and you are just 19, don’t indulge into any romantic relationship nor go by his words of ‘I love you’. He in no way should be after a girl like you. According to me he wants something else (he has no right to touch you physically without your consent, and if you are allowing it, it’s wrong and later if somethimg happens you know you would be the person to blame) which over a period of time he will get from you and is trying to build trust so that it doesn’t seem wrong on his behalf. If someone says ‘I respect you’ means he doesn’t, he just tries to prove that. Respect is shown by actions and not by words.

I suggest you to clearly stay away from him in all means and if you want to continue with driving and droping facility, take your parents along with you. Infact tell them and ask their opinion. I am hoping they will agree with me completely.

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Never give up @ava

I am agree with you too. Now I will never go anywhere with him.Thanks , Thanks a lot.He alsoo want to give me iPhone.I don’t like this type of kindness.I will avoid from him.

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Simran @st1199

Good to hear that you no longer will continue with his help.
Your parents are there to gift you a phone, an Uber driver doesn’t need to do that and who knows what’s inside it to use it against you.

Just say to him that he must stop this nonsense and never try with some other girl. Maybe he get’s scared and will learn from his mistakes.

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Never give up @ava

Yes, I will do that too. Yesterday he said I want to kiss your hand I said don’t think about me like that. because I am not that kind of girl. And I cancelled the plane for learning driving from this man. Today he texts me I take my drugs and I am very hot I asked what do you mean he said I am shying to tell you. I feel awkward and I did not text him back about that.

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Simran @st1199

See. He’s reveling his true self as he comes to know that you will stay away from him.

Block him from everywhere so that he can’t reach out to you. Sometimes these people can turn out to be dangerous. No need to entertain his texts and please be aware of these men in future.

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Never give up @ava

Ok,I blocked him.thanks neverr ever I will text him.thanks💗

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Simran @st1199

Great!
All the best for future! :)

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