Sol know this girl for 9 months. We became close friends in very short time I mean very close. I had a crush on her she knows that. But she has a boyfriend. But she spends more time with me excessively, we talk everyday there are no days that we havenโt talked we live in same city but we dont meet sometimes we stay on call for 6 hrs! No matter what it is she makes time for me or sheโll text me I donโt really call, always she does bes she studyโs a lot dont want to disturb her. Sheโll call me everyday after just to tell me about her day and Iโm non attending student itโs cute. I know that her BF and her doesnโt talk much like we do. 3 months ago we had big fight things got between us a little non platonic she didnโt liked it we disagreed I called her whore and shit even selfish and she didnโt even said anything other than i am immature. I thought it ended I moved on deleted her no. Last month she called i picked up it was her and then things became normal we are still talking. I Wish I never said those thing I really do. May be I still like her too. What kind of relationship in I am
But I wonder why she came back after what I did to her bes no one would. Anyone explain.
But she says I am boring and she says she can be more herself when I talk to me that she knows I wont judge her much
Hii Aliya butt
It was her birthday recently I gifted her a painting
I mean I like her but she has a bf
Yes I like her
Sheโs using uโฆperiod. And cheating on her bf. She needs attention and u r available n fitting her criteria. So yeahโฆdats d truthโฆ I donโt knwโฆmaybe somewhere in future u guys might end up togetherโฆ or it might end uglyโฆ cnt say. As for u guys exchanging wordsโฆ itโs doneโฆu cnt take dem backโฆit was said maybe in the heat of the momentโฆ u cn apologize if u feel bad abt itโฆn be careful that u donโt repeat such words again. There are ways to communicate ur emotions
Purely platonic, if you ask me. Maybe she has an emotional connect with you, but doesnโt intend to take it further because sheโs gotta focus on her studies. Or maybe she has feelings for you and she realises it. Or maybe she was feeling lonely and couldnโt think of anyone else who was available and talked to her daily. Talk to her, and find out her intentions. TBH, only she knows why she really called you.
As far as wishing you hadnโt said things is concerned, itโs wishful alright. You can always apologise like โI apologise for saying those mean things to you. I promise Iโll be better in futureโ and then be better in future. Changed behaviour is the only real apology :)
I mean she has other friends like longer than me she says she can be more herself in front of me and Iโve apologized to her
My question is what do you want? Why are you wondering how she feels about you? You obviously like her. Do you wish to take things forward?
Ofcourse
Iโd rather be rejected than be wasting my time. Your call :)
The bond u two possess is that of online close friends, u two may be close but ultimately u should ask urself will she choose u in the endโฆyour question gives one the impression that u have a crush on herโฆDo not rush things otherwise more arguments will happen betn the two of you
Furthermore, have you tired not conversing with her for a day? What was her reaction? If it was along the lines of โSorry, that I didnโt have timeโ or nothing, then she only thinks of u as one of those desperate guys who want validation. Do not waste your time on meaningless pursuits.
No we are not
Rememberโฆnever pour your soul out to someone whom you are uncertain of
So true dude
This is the zone of ambiguity