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Sol know this girl for 9 months. We became close friends in very short time I mean very close. I had a crush on her she knows that. But she has a boyfriend. But she spends more time with me excessively, we talk everyday there are no days that we haven’t talked we live in same city but we dont meet sometimes we stay on call for 6 hrs! No matter what it is she makes time for me or she’ll text me I don’t really call, always she does bes she study’s a lot dont want to disturb her. She’ll call me everyday after just to tell me about her day and I’m non attending student it’s cute. I know that her BF and her doesn’t talk much like we do. 3 months ago we had big fight things got between us a little non platonic she didn’t liked it we disagreed I called her whore and shit even selfish and she didn’t even said anything other than i am immature. I thought it ended I moved on deleted her no. Last month she called i picked up it was her and then things became normal we are still talking. I Wish I never said those thing I really do. May be I still like her too. What kind of relationship in I am

But I wonder why she came back after what I did to her bes no one would. Anyone explain.

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But she says I am boring and she says she can be more herself when I talk to me that she knows I wont judge her much

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Hii Aliya butt

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It was her birthday recently I gifted her a painting

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I mean I like her but she has a bf

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Yes I like her

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Anonymous

She’s using u…period. And cheating on her bf. She needs attention and u r available n fitting her criteria. So yeah…dats d truth… I don’t knw…maybe somewhere in future u guys might end up together… or it might end ugly… cnt say. As for u guys exchanging words… it’s done…u cnt take dem back…it was said maybe in the heat of the moment… u cn apologize if u feel bad abt it…n be careful that u don’t repeat such words again. There are ways to communicate ur emotions

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Purely platonic, if you ask me. Maybe she has an emotional connect with you, but doesn’t intend to take it further because she’s gotta focus on her studies. Or maybe she has feelings for you and she realises it. Or maybe she was feeling lonely and couldn’t think of anyone else who was available and talked to her daily. Talk to her, and find out her intentions. TBH, only she knows why she really called you.

As far as wishing you hadn’t said things is concerned, it’s wishful alright. You can always apologise like “I apologise for saying those mean things to you. I promise I’ll be better in future” and then be better in future. Changed behaviour is the only real apology :)

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I mean she has other friends like longer than me she says she can be more herself in front of me and I’ve apologized to her

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My question is what do you want? Why are you wondering how she feels about you? You obviously like her. Do you wish to take things forward?

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Ofcourse

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I’d rather be rejected than be wasting my time. Your call :)

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The bond u two possess is that of online close friends, u two may be close but ultimately u should ask urself will she choose u in the end…your question gives one the impression that u have a crush on her…Do not rush things otherwise more arguments will happen betn the two of you

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Furthermore, have you tired not conversing with her for a day? What was her reaction? If it was along the lines of “Sorry, that I didn’t have time” or nothing, then she only thinks of u as one of those desperate guys who want validation. Do not waste your time on meaningless pursuits.

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No we are not

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Remember…never pour your soul out to someone whom you are uncertain of

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So true dude

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This is the zone of ambiguity

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