Avdhoot @avdhoot_24
So yesterday I sent a picture of the clouds at night to a girl who liked and I thought it was really beautiful so I’d share it but she just saw it and did not reply, which made things really awkward for me as when I saw her today It was weird cause she was with the guy she wanted to date and the guys she wants to date wants to “explore” which make s her and me really confused as I have to frequently move on from her and get back to liking her as we have a lot of mutual friends.
Since she was not sure what she wanted I suggested we go with the flow and aim for atleaat a short term relationship but then she says that she wants a long term relationship.
Avdhoot @avdhoot_24
And that makes this all really messed up she still says that she is open to hangout but why should I invest my time in someone who doesn’t really want a relationship with me and wants to date one of my friends instead who wants to date someone else and after today I think that it was really infatuation and not a real thing because she really isn’t my type or is someone who I wouldnt date for a long term
Simple sa funda h… If you want to date her and she does not want to… Then now it’s upto you… Because she can be your friend… but you shouldn’t hope for anything else… it will be just friendship… nothing more… and i ll suggest you not to be anyone’s second choice…
Change your approach,
Ask yourself what do you want for yourself and with her instead of what she wants.
It will save you lots of pain.
Avdhoot @avdhoot_24
Thanks a lot I ll surely keep that in mind :)
