So when do do we know we have to break off the relationship?
Well I have this boyfriend who love me soo much but he is bit dumb in expressing felling, being there emotionally not just physically, in romance in overall relationships. Now I’m not using the slow word here because it been almost three years and it’s become frustrating when you have to tell everything to him. Especially when you yourself is in the stressful days and he never talk to me about that. I tried that communication shit but I only will be speaking, he will not speak a word or express his felling. So after communicating I fell like now maybe he will change or put some effort but no all is same.
So recently I’m questioning about this relationship. Am I happy or am I asking or expecting too much. But one fact I know is we both love soo much so I don’t want to make wrong decision and end up regretting it
He must be not mature
Other then in relationship, he is well mature in life. He is very ambitious, help his parents financially and independent and we are 23.
Loveheart @won_iron
Try to understand the reason for his inability to express his love for you to find a way to fix it.
Yes that is the only solution and trying on it
Maybe in his life he have been like that due to his childhood his experience. Try to understand that reason, and try to talk it out. Breaking up here is not the solution. Also you are not asking for too much. Sometimes we really need the other person to react. Have a good long talk with each other. And your future in this relationship.
Yes exactly. I fell like I have to drag everything out of him. How can we communicate when he didnt even know what to talk. When we fight he says things randomly that trigger me soo much and I’m a over thinker, I just can’t forget abt it. he always say the same that he doesn’t mean anything he just said in anger. And what upset me the most is after ever fight he did say sorry but sleep silently and next day he didn’t talk about that last night fight. I want to hear what we did wrong and how can we resolve it but no nothing.
It’s okay. Look for yourself first, then all of it.
