So what was your first relationship like? Hit me up in the comments section. All stories are welcome. I am listening. Love and hugs!!

1st year of college we became friends out of nowhere as I am too shy to approach somebody, I had no idea how it happened. Few months later her bf broke up with her. We were two really good friends, we share almost identical view about life that's what brought us closer. Few weeks later on a sunday afternoon a message pops up on the screen, describing what she feels for me I couldn't step back cause I also fallen for her. She wasn't over her last breakup yet and that's what made her ex to play a trick.
He made fool of her and she was so dumb that the very next day she broke up with me by showing some silly reasons.
Now that son of a bi*ch played his last card and rest his history.

Love

Hello guys, I am already in relationship from past 2 years but now my partner has been attracted to some other person...when I came to know about this..I asked then my partner said that they are temporary and you are my permanent..I don't want to leave you, so I don't know what to do...any suggestions???

Relationships

Yep i know how it feels when you got crush on your own cats.....

Having emotional fatigue ?🤷‍♀
A lot of my clients in mid to late twenties coming with this trending emotional fatigue  due to this unforeseen hook up culture.🤦‍♀
wherein the one partner is getting attached and is coming up openly and the other is not ready to accept it completely except the physical  benefits.well, my dear,dating is not everyone's  cup of tea.💁‍♀ Especially,  when moves are planned strategically. You could get the fatigue after a lot of emotionally unstable realtionship.
Despite having good sex and everything, you would end up  questioning yourself where are the other stuff ?chasing over getting that pleasure is okay but what about intimacy and stability. 🙆‍♀ 
With everything being said,I am in no sense saying don't go on such apps but know yourself better before trying or experimenting something like that  and being authentic and honest  could be the things that  could savesave you from the post traumatic dating events if any occurs. ( hopefully, no. 🤦‍♀️)Also,there is no wrong or right moves in any scenario,whatever feel authentic to you, continue it with the real genuine connection.Being pushy could be the least attractive thing that you can do.
Alas, everything boils down to self awareness,sweet.🙋‍♀️
ps : it's not even my cup of tea,rather  my coffee :pyou do you,learn from the lessons. :)


Adulting

I hope someone could tell me some fun action movies 🙏

Movies

Is it okay if I post that im taking a break from social media without stating my reason and not telling people including my partner? Will my post enough? I just need to take a break from it soon. 

Peer Pressure

Nowadays, it's quite easy to get a boyfriend/ girlfriend...... but not a best friend!! A friend whom you can call "BUDDY"!!!

Why so????

3am Thoughts

I don’t know if I feel sad or don’t feel anything at all. When I was in school, I was humiliated and ostracized. I went into depression that led to a downfall in my career. When I was finally on track and due to immense hard work started scoring highest in college and simultaneously preparing for upsc, things have started getting worse. Till January this year, my brother and sister in law were on the verge of separating. My father is a heart patient and has underwent 3 surgeries and two angioplasties. Due to marriage issues of my brother and families being dragged into it, he was frequently having chest pain. Then I and my father was also suffering from Covid 19. One day father’s oxygen level dropped below 80 and I was scared and sat by his side whole night praying for his life. Due to all these things I started getting panic attacks and anxiety. Due to the situation at home I am mostly mentally and emotionally down. Though I try to keep a happy face for my family but inside I am almost broke. Just 7-8 days back I got to know that my grandfather was my father’s step father and came to know all that he suffered as a child. Suddenly all my paternal uncle and aunts are my half relatives. All my cousins are my half cousins. From my childhood I had this fear of being sidelined due to differential treatment by my grandfather but then I was told a different reason for this. However sidelined me and my brother felt by my grandfather, we loved him. I am very attached to my paternal relatives. I love my cousins badly. This was very difficult for me to accept. For first few days of knowing it I couldn’t sleep. Then I went numb. I am still battling with it. Today my boyfriend of almost 7 years broke up with me on a silly topic. We used to fight on small things. All this led us believe that we think separately and are not compatible. I have a very small group of friends. Though I am close to my friends but I don’t share things with anyone as I have trust issues due to my past experience. I don’t have any male friend. Even before my boyfriend I would not speak to any male due to religious reasons. He was the only person with home I would share my feelings. Sometimes he would understand and sometimes he would judge me. Sometimes he would say things like you are always sad, you are overthinker, from the time I have entered your life I have only been hearing all this. When I came in a relationship with him, initially he had hurt me a lot but I decided to give him and our relationship time. I would believe with my love he would change. He used to flirt a lot, on the other hand I would not speak to a single boy or hide anything from him. Then after a year I couldn’t take it and decided to separate. He didn’t let me do that. He made after me for almost a month and convinced me to come back. I loved him and had soft corner for him. I changed him over years. Today as a changed person he has become even more difficult for me. I am hurt. 

Depression

I hope all of you find the peace that you are looking for. I hope all of you are released from the demons of pain that plague you and the darkness that surrounds you, I hope it gives way to light. I hope you get the closure you are frantically seeking and the love you look for finds it way to you. I hope you are hugged like there is no tomorrow and cared for intensely. I hope you get inspired everyday and have fire in you that propels you towards growth. I hope you get the best. Take care my dear empath amigos. Sending you loads of love, hugs, warmth and positivity.

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