So today or these days i have panic attacks on little things idk why n how but my school frnd was bout to leave me all alone we have our frndship since we were 5 and now that he and I had a small fight he just doesn't seem to care n i feel like all the stress n depression in coming my way

Well let's hope he comes back this distance thing is really not my thing yeahhh I'm a crazy ass overthinker but thank uh for listening I appreciate your efforts n will try to stay clam

Anxiety

Guy is confused about his feelings, I know him for a long time, he doesn't see me the way I see him, he has this long distance relationship for almost 4 years now, he vents to me, he will tell me that his gf is not giving him time blah blah, but he never understands that I am giving him time, I am sacrificing myself for him on so many levels. Sometimes I think this guy is confused about his feelings for her and for me, once he kissed me out of the blue, I mean why would he do that if he feels his relationship is going fine with her. I won't deny I have feelings for him too, but I cannot do all this while he is in a relationship with her already.
UPDATE: (so I wrote this in the morning, but didn't finish) I don't know how I got the strength to take up this topic and confront him about his feeling. By goddd!! this guy is confused about his feelings I used to think that I am the only one who has confused feelings, but he proved me wrong. He straight away said I am confused, I mean I was just wondering and he came up with it right away. He says he is so confused with his feelings towards me and his gf. We talked for hours, and hopefully he might be able to understand better and maybe make a right decision (I want him to totally commit to me, but I feel bad that I will be the reason for his breakup)

Confusion

I need your help. I have been in relationship with my boyfriend since 2 years and now it’s time to tell my parents about him. I don’t know how do I do that. He is from the same caste and religion but he’s not as rich as us like we can same. And in my caste they look for people who are much richer. He does have a job and a side business. Also our horoscopes don’t match at all. That’s a very big bad news especially for my parents, his parents are chill. My parents are not very open about these love marriages. I’m clue less I don’t know how to start and how do I convince them because my parents care too much about what others think and my mom I’m sure will say things like I will die if you do this etc . I’m scared I don’t know how I should convince them. 

Family

I fell in love and it's been the best decision of my life, stuff gets rocky sometimes but I love him more than I ever thought was possible. We're a few months away from a year. And I am so so excited. I want to spend the rest of my life with him, he pulled me out when I needed it. He's made me happy and I've become a better person because of him. I worry because we do fight a little more than we should. But being with him is so magical and amazing it feels so unreal. I want to marry this man. I want to continue to grow for him. Now and always. 

Boyfriend

Idk what to feel. Just found out that the guy who I have been talking to on and off has a partner now. He’s really different from the other guys I talked to because in a way, he makes me feel stupid? Like I can never predict his reply. He always caught me by surprise which I find really refreshing. I guess that was what keep me wanting to talk to him all these while. 

 I found out on accident via Instagram bcos her profile was recommended to me. The last time we spoke 2 months ago, he talked about how he will ask me out “when the time is right” and how he wasn’t really looking for a relationship and he doesn’t want to lead me on. It got me thinking how he must have really like this girl to be in a relationship. I have mixed feelings about this whole situation. Maybe I wasn’t good enough or maybe I was the second choice? I know I have no right to feel mad or hurt since he did told me upfront about not wanting to lead me on. On the other hand, I’m glad he found someone. That someone was just not me ☹️ 

One Sided Love

After 2 years of breakup  , I was the one who done it. He was so much in love with me nd so much dependent. At that time i was affected with a disease nd treatment starts, at that time we miscommunicated a lot, ( long distance) nd it frustrated me a lot nd that's the reason ofy breakup . Now I saw him a week back. He is still looking me with the same love he had before nd from then I am getting sudden breakdowns, depressed thoughts nd I miss him moree his love his care. I always thought when I'm alone he will be with me but now .. I know he is far away from me he moved on. Maybe this too shall pass

Breakup

Hello everyone I am new here. 
I came here so that I know what should I do with my current situation. I am going through the worst breakup ever that's giving me mixed feelings. Me and my partner were having lots of ups and downs but that day when we broke up for real. I cried and begged him to stay, he said he will not come back to me. I cried and after doing no contact with him for 5 dyas, I blocked him in every flatform so that I can resist myself from talking to him. I also asked him to block me on WhatsApp he denied many times to block me but at the end he did because I pleaded him to do. Then after 5 days, I cried my lungs out I missed him so badly.. I can't accept the fact that we actually broke up. I was in denial my health deteriorated day by day . Seeing my condition my cousin sister who is really close to me decided to talk to him, she talked with him and he told her that he can't stay with me.. Because I always get angry at him and would always argue over small things he got tired. I was really rude to him since I was very bad showing my emotions and at the end I would end up being cold and heartless. I have hurted him many times. But I loved him too. Last time I pleaded him again and asked me to give me a chance because I love him and I will never do it again. (He was my first bf and my first relationship so I wasn't sure what makes an relationship collapse ) I did many mistakes. When last time I talked with him he was not sad, he was so emotionless and said that he got bored and doesn't love me anymore and that he wouldn't give me a chance. He was nice but distant. He said he would call me again but he didn't. He didn't blocked me anywhere but he never talked to me first too. I talked to him today if he had reached his home since he was out of town during our breakup and stayed with his cousin. He used to love me a lot I can't accept that he had moved on in just two days and lost feelings for me so easily.. Am I that replaceable? 

Hi, it's my first time posting here. I have **someone**in my life who is very close to me but he was behaving very weird for the past 2 months, it felt like he was trying to distance himself from me and there was I who had no clue about what was going on, on his mind. I asked him several times to talk to me, tell me what is wrong and gave him all sorts of assurance that if he ever felt like talking I'll be just a call away but he refused to talk. But yesterday he just went all ballistic and opened up that he had been feeling a little low and suicidal lately and was getting irritated by the things I was saying, he told me that he can never share anything serious with me because I'm all funny, which is not true because **I was the one** who was constantly asking him about how he is, then he went on and said that we have nothing in common and he never finds anything to talk to me about. He says that he has changed(he got into college this year so...that's what changed him). Then I told him that I myself am not the same person, this past year has changed me in so many ways but I never talked about it because I always felt that my feelings would not be reciprocated and he felt the same, but in reality we both were miserable and we both wanted to talk to someone but never did. I told him that the drift is because of this communication gap only but he refuses to talk to me because apparently I'm not mature enough. We haven't met since last year so that also adds up. I don't know what to do, we have been together for the past 3 years and all of the sudden it's all ending, he has changed, which I totally understand....I mean it was obvious that college would change both of us but I never realized that the change will part us. He is his own individual and I respect him if he wants to end things. I love him to this extent that I'll let him go, I just want him to be happy, even if he finds it with someone else. But all this is breaking me, he was my pillar of strength and my pill of happiness for all these years and I just don't know how to handle this. I'm gonna change myself for good and I'm thankful to him for making me realize this.....it's just that the way it all came out was devastating, he kept all these feelings to himself for sooo many days and now it all burst out of him. 

Okay so it was 3 years ago a boy in my college was so in love with me that everytime he used to irritate me by making lot of calls and messages in a day firstly I wasn't okay with it because I had been really in a very bad relationship in my past like my best friend cheated on me with my boyfriend so I was almost on the level of depression and with so much of patience and struggle I came out of that phase so I was not ready for another relationship and that boy in my college was constantly forcing me to be in relationship with him but as time passed I began to know him and was loving all his efforts because all you crave for is love and attention and then we had our first kiss and after that we were in a relationship for almost a year but I don't know where I went wrong I did everything for him like to support him all time in his studies but it didn't make any change but this affected my grades. also I noticed one thing that the love and attention I got from him before the relationship was non existable after the relationship like he was more attracted to other girls.He didn't even call me for 2-3 days didn't even try to meet me for months. Wasn't it so strange?. also we were on a trip where I needed him the most I was sick and I need someone to stay with me where he did insulted me infront of everyone and instead of staying with me he was chilling with his so called friends who did not even care a bit about him.Also he always denies to socialize me on his account but he always expects that I should socialize him everywhere. During covid I realised alot of things that he doesn't need me anymore and So do I. But after several months I realised that I'm not able to move on after such a toxic relationship like I still crave for his attention and stalk him on every social sites.Now what should I do? Please help me out buddies!

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