So this guy told a friend that he finds me pretty and added me on Insta but haven't made any contact, should I take the first step and send him a message?

FOMO

I had been in a relationship since 2019 which was pretty good but ever since the lockdown began, it became an on and off thing. He ultimately decided to take a break from me for his exams and suggested me to do the same. I was fine with it too but I started getting insecure whether he would actually get back with me after exams cause it’s a span of 4 months gap. Moreover, I lost some of my closest friends too who I thought I could trust. So basically I ended up being alone all by myself. And seeing him be so productive, having so many people to hangout with and share his thoughts with , it hurts that I didn’t have the same. I gained weight, my mental health got worse, keep crying whenever I open my books to study, pity myself all the time. Would be really helpful if someone could drop suggestions to focus on myself 

Breakup

i wish my ex didn’t live so close to me bc it makes it harder to move on 

3am Thoughts

I am in love with a guy! We both had gay relationship for almost an year now! Now he is getting married to a girl! I don't know what to do!

LGBTQ

So I have been in a relationship with a boy since the past 3 months. It was going smooth until I figured out that the guy is too clingy and immatured. I mean,it might sound sweet but he is always talking about things like marriage ,love and never tried to rationalize things. Whenever I try to make him understand that marriage is a big thing and we really need to be practical about such a big thing in life. He starts to doubt my loyalty. In short, he is always acting immatured and clingy . He always craves for attention all the time. I have a life outside this relationship and he fails to understand that I need to balance both. He is too needy and demanding to a point that I have started to feel annoyed about this whole thing . But at the same time,I don't want to hurt him. Please help.

Love

I went to sleep hoping that he will matter a tad bit less than he did last night but no, I woke up feeling much more terrible. He says he loves me and to a great extent I believe him but it just isn't enough. He goes days without talking to me without informing me that he's going and it hurts. I checked if he has messaged me and no he hasn't. I don't know why I just love this guy so much, I end up understanding him even if it hurts me. I've been in a messed up state of mind for over a year and everytime I think it'll get better it just gets worse and I honestly cannot take it anymore but again I love him,  to the very core. 

Hello!Please can someone give me an advice!🙏
My ex boyfriend wants to date with me again because its been (1,2 month since we broke )and in a text today he said that all men that are single have pain in their heart when they watch girls doing Tik Tok or twearking online.After that I asked what does he mean ,is he talking about himself and he said no,I talk about other me that are weak not me(like he informs me how other men think) and he gived me another exemple and he said : Let’s imagine that a man is walking with his 50 years old woman that has from him 3 childrens and on a side is walking a Beautiful 18 years old girl in a Short Mini Skirt and with her ass nude(thats how he texted) and she provocatively moves in the faces of your man and after he asked me :Do you think your man is blind and doesn’t see her?and he added :Imagine you have 50 years- you are old (he put an accent that I will be old woman at 50)and he asked me to answer him what do I think that when I will be 50 I will look like a girl that is 18? And he added of course the a man will not cheat on his wife but he will look at her and this will be pain inflicting for many men.After that I said to him that I will not take him back after this words and he said :I didnt say thats how I think -he said that this is how another men think but in the way he texted and asked me if I think that I still will look like a 18 years old when I will be 50 I think that actually he talked about him .And he send me a picture with me when I was 18 (not I am 28) and said ok but be honest you will never look the same way you looked at your 18 years old. And after that he said ok I will always love you and to take him back because ok I will be for him beautiful in my own way but something I feel insulting about how he expressed himself about all this .I am right?I dont understand why he wants me back when he talks like this .Please ,can someone give me an opinion?I would really apreciate this!Thank you!🙏

Relationships

am in love and in a relationship with a boy, we both love each other, and we are ready to get married and start a life from 0 together, without anything…

The issue is that the boy is not from my country… He’s from the country I am living in… But both have the same religion and both are like soulmates… The only thing is the language and the country… Other culture…

I am afraid now from telling my parents they are strict parents,they reject to get married to someone they Dont know the family and stuffs like those and I don’t know how they will take this when I will tell them… Am afraid if they reject, and the worst take from me all my things car, phone, pc, tablet, everything…

What should I do? How I should tell them without a instantly rejection? Did someone happened this with them before?

Please help…

Now a days am rly feeling low...... Feeling depresed.... In ths 5 yrs of marriage we went through so many ups and downs... And we faced tht together.... I was rly happy to get my childhood sweetheart my life partner...  But now a days... He is sm kind of different... He keeps distance from me... We talk little much.... Some times he jz get irrirated... He never express his feelings.... I kwn he is not happy with me.. I kwn i not a perfect wife typz... I hv my flaws... I try to became better... But somtimes i do mistakes... He never talk abt that.. So sometimes i dont kwn what my mistak was.. Sitting at home really msking me sick.. But when i thnk abt my baby.. I jz endur al my pain... She is so cute......

Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts