So this guy told a friend that he finds me pretty and added me on Insta but haven't made any contact, should I take the first step and send him a message?

FOMO

I have been cheated multiple times(it was 3 year relationship)still gave him chances because he was related to my family but everytime I used to say breakup because I was not able to heal. I am not saying I was right all the time in a relationship. Only 8 months I could see his efforts but still I was in doubt. Then he lost his brother. Things became more critical and then after few months his parents told him to stay away from me and he blocked me. We still used to chat from snap got into relationship without telling to anyone also got physical then I got to know he was dating a girl from past 5 months and were getting physical offen. Plus I got to know many people were involved in breakup and said lie about me and he too played telling everyone that he is frustrated with me but used to pretend happy in front of me. In snap he was 1st defending himself and then he used to say u didn't gave love. Idk what just happened? That girl is saying I am not able to save relationship. Did I do wrong? I don't want to be with him but my friends are saying he will still contact you 1 day. Is it true? 

Breakup

I am in this long-distance relationship from two years, I love him and he loves me , we are best friends since school.  I still has to stay at home for another 3-4 months until my office opens and he is another city doing his work. he can't come to our hometown because he feels very unproductive here and i get it. but now he doesn't want to do long distance , he wants us to stay friends until my office opens and i can be there.   but i just can't do this way, i tried to understand and i knew what all he is going through and he is not able to balance. but i can't stop thinking that its my fault he is taking this step because of the way I am in a relationship.   He has made it pretty clear that he can't try long-distance anymore.  He loves me , he doesn't want to fuck around, We will get married some day and I know everything is pretty much fine in our lives, But i still feel this void inside me.

Long Distance Relationship

what does it take to get over someone , been almost more than a year , but i still think about him .How do i get over him?

Love

I am feeling very low for sonetime now. Im having some relationship issues. I love him and he does too, its just he cant give me time. I dont feel like im his priority. He just doesnt have time for me. All he thinks about is his friends and i just constantly feel like a second option to him and i just wanna feel that way anymore. I am tired of feeling this way. I really dont know what to do , how to tell him. 

Relationships

Few months back my friend proposed me..  I had feelings for him but I was bit scared to accept it..  He got job in another city. Within a month he came back to visit me that's last week .  Taking so much efforts n all..  His care.. His concern.. Literally made me accept his proposal..  He stayed a week n my city..  We bonded physically mentally..  2days back he moved to his job place..  Its been a day..  He didn't speak to me properly..  Giving reasons that he s busy working.. Dinner with colleagues..  Felt that..  He s avoiding me.. Or am I just over thinking..  I really dont know..  I feel so confused..  Or am I being jealous.   

Lonely

I once said to him, invite me to your wedding and he said without you it won't be possible, he won't really say that to anyone else, so does he like me... or was just flirting?

3am Thoughts

I'm not really feeling good
He moved on so quickly it hurts. It only took him a few days to get another girl and it hurts so much because I did everything I could for him and I get treated horribly back. I wish I never met him.

My first crush happened 11 years ago and after that I met him after 8 years we interacted and I got to know he is in relationship, it broke me a little but then I continued with my life after few months he said he wants to breakup with his gf as she is possessive and very dominating he started sharing his feelings with me eventually we fell in love its been 3 yrs wat we have is unstable because according to him his gf is very clingy and at one point I got so frustrated I left him totally with his gf and started meeting other people and knowing them but I just couldn't feel for anyone the way I felt for him and parted my ways with another guy, I just cannot get him out of my mind and am controlling myself from talking to him I miss him and cry for him but couldn't help and now things have taken turn in a manner where he wants me but knows he can't cling and hold me as he said if she wants to marry me I will marry her.. All I know is he loves me and I m sure about it, but he is just letting me go I can stay if I want to but eventually we will split and I can't be his side chic i want to be his whole.. But if being with her is what's best for him I will be more than happy for him, he thinks she can take care of his family and that's just the reason why he is ready to get married to her.. Sometimes I feel like running back to him but than I again remember that he is officially with someone else and it takes myself a little everyday.. Why did we met again after so many years and why did we fell for each other what did this thought me,except of pain and hurt


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