So there’s this girl I met since Aug 2021 and we’ve been talking, hanging out and more. Celebrate special holidays together as well. Whenever we are together, happiness flows really well from together and we always had great time. In between we are on and off, got into small argument but yet we solved it out like nth happened. So as time flies by she said we are just friends but I told her we are way past that margin already, though your words said we are just friends but actions clearly said we are more than that. Which she got quiet and shut for a bit. But we still ok and now into 2022 things began to change a bit. We act like couples yet we aren’t, yeh I know it’s confusing but it is. So past last week she said “i tried not to meet or talk to you but guess that didn’t worked” so we went on dates/hangout/cuddle for last week 3-4 days plus I helped her with her HW one day. Now its been again almost a week she acting like a stranger to me, even I call she would rarely pick up. Last night we talked and she sound like complete stranger and the way she asked me was as if I am IRS needing a reason to give why I call. 😔
She wants someone else and you are a toy for her… maybe she can love you one day more thats for sure but in order for her to appreciate you she needs to date someone who will not treat her that good and after she will appreciate… she is just immature…dont force things, let her be this way… you can have fun also with her , but if she doesnt fall in love with you then you may need to move on.
She would say “I love you” through out times which surprised me, she’ll show me care/love/attention all that but at times she’ll switch up different person which happened recently and a week ago so which got me confused.
She may love you, but she may be unstable mentally
You have to also understand your intentions and where you want this to go… if its marriage you should take one path, if its fun then its anither , if yiu dont know what to do then focus on your stuff…. Also, it fepends on what she is doing, what you can offer her , where you are planning this relationship to go… how fast… and so on
So should I still text her like I usually do “Good M and Good Nite?” that I care and am there for her OR should I keep silent/quiet?
You should always do how you feel but you should understand more things here. Firstly your age and intentions. You have to make sure if you are ready for a family and you want it with her or not, because otherwise you are loosing your time instead on focusing on things that will build the man in you. You can text her, you cant text her but in the end of day and for your future all that will matter is what can you offer to yourself and the woman with who you can have a family. And you may loose now energy when this when you instead can become more educated and successful and you can meet a woman later. You definitely can text her, its not about playing games its about being yourself.
If he will be a friend he will get emotionally involved! Frindship takes a lot of energy and emotions! He has to concentrate his focus on his strength and realize that if its meant to be it will be naturally without forcing too much .
Yes yes , they can stay friends and by giving his energy to her he will fall in love with her more, while she will only take and take and take…. No man. Cut friendship if it makes you suffer. You cant act indiffrenet because you are allready not indiferent. Frinship between them is not possible because he loves her and here is a different story.
She act different with me too though she said just friends, we be mostly holding hands/kissing/holding, pretty much everything like couple does yet she said we friends
Focus on myself, text her back only when she text first, Give her time and let her sort things out
