So theres my guy best friend
He was like a constant to me
We share literally everything Nd it was such a pure form of friendship.
But now comes this girl who cried a lot Nd tore him down to love her. He didn’t want a relationship but now he’s into a relationship with her after six months. Nd he hid it from me. My thing is that he can fall in love but it shld be with the right one. She doesn’t suit him. He may get hurt. But even if I talk a lot …like literally I said this to him, explained it, shouted for it, said calmly
But still he doesn’t know that it’s wrong
He’s not in love with her. He just fell for her cuz she cried a lot.
What shld I do now.?
Should I leave him to continue the relationship Nd be a good friend.
Or somehow convince him to come out of this relationship. Or let him do anything
I think you should let him be. You can’t control just show them what it is. You have done your part as a friend. What if he was looking for a girl who loved her more than anything. And he got her now. You can’t really know anyone. Even if you meet them, talk them each and everyday. You must support him. You must respect his decision. You just be their if something goes wrong.
But low-key I have this thought were that girl doesn’t know him like I do. She doesn’t suit him. Worried about him.
Well no one knows anyone. She doesn’t suits him, how can you even know that. Things changes when people spend time with each other. Give them a chance. I know your worries are valid as a friend. But one must learn from his/her experience.
First of all yoh should confront him that ehy did he hid from you! Ask him the reason! And then tell him that this girl is not good for you you deserve better and then if he still don’t listen to you then just wait he will realize but if when he does don’t leave him be with him and support him.
I can never leave such a good friend. I did ask why he hid it. He kinda said he was afraid of what he said. He isn’t sure whether he really loves her.
I think you should tell him , how you feelings about him. Might he will be liking you and don’t want to tell you. And don’t think he won’t talk to you or something atleast you will be knowing how he thinks about you.
It’s really hard for me. I’ve this another thing were that girl literally Hates me already. Nd he’s thinking that I’m confronting him cuz I also hate her. I don’t hate her. She doesn’t suit him. I tried telling a lot. He isn’t taking it
Moving onn is best I think , even I just moved on same thing like you. But there is no 3rd person. Even we fight a lot these days. Even I want to stop talking to her. I won’t stop directly I’ll tell my problem.