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So, There’s a girl who used to be my kinda one sided best friend because I used to tell her everything but she didn’t. Then, she heard me when there was a guy I was talking to. And, we were trying to make things work between us. But somehow, my past disturbed me and I backed out from this new springing bond and I said, I can’t now but I am ready for the future… Like after two three months. (My wrong also, I know, Why did I make the forward moves if I was going to get confused) then, this my supposed bestie, sent him long long emotional mails. How, this guy is very important for her and they came in a relationship. When I met the guy again after two months, it was very smooth. I tried to keep in mind in the beginning that he’s in a relationship. But at a young age, meeting in a new place with a person you share so much spark from the beginning, things kinda slips sometimes. I just fell for him. I have always fallen for him. Just so many things full partner vibe. Now, he also fell for me again. And, some tensions in the relationship also, so he decided to get rid of his relationship. After some fights and all, they broke up and we patched up after some time. I know this is cliched now. But, this girl has given me enough teenage trauma also, couldn’t forgive her for the emotional manipulation. So, yeah just after a month of this break up, she was also in another relationship. So, like good, you have already found your new love, good. Bdw, now my boy , leave can’t type it’s too much!
What you wanna say here… is it vent or you need something from this community to help you with
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You can read the second message in the comments and help if you can with any suggestions!
KJ can make a movie out of this.
💀💀
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Ikr 🥲😂😂
If you want peace, yk what to do.
Am confused
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Me tooo 😭
Can we talk personally, am literally not understanding your post
Did you read the second message? In the comments
Yes
Ok. What do you get ?
Your friend was not good
Anyways, thanks for reading. That alone is so much to me.
Ok sorry
Lol . Thanks. At least, not for arguing with me. You also did wrong! 😭😔 Haha
No why sorry
Because I am not understanding anything, am sorry
Haha 😂🤌🏼 no issues.
Am going, you are confusing me
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Then, my boy started feeling sorry for leaving her like that. And, he was not even enjoying the relationship with me, bcz I was not as agreeing as her. The girl has moved on with her jew bf. But, my man wanted some friendship or any kind of thing like connection. He contacted her, met with her, cried in front of her. Some times I was with him to support him, console him after his meets. And sometimes, virtually I supported and all. Finally he understood the manipulation and victim card type games she played and put maximum blame on him. So, he realised slowly how she has ruined the mental health of more than half of my friend group. So, yeah he said he’s moved on. Now, no bullshit. But again met her when she called him for a meet. And, then one day called her in his drunk state. But, he’s all over and all that I know his love is at the right place. Now, someone from that girl’s home died from a prolonged illness, so the family was sort of prepared. Now, I went to her home, even after all the ups and downs. Experienced all the awkward expressions and the bullshit of her new bestie. One thing i wanted was my bf to be with me, cozingly soothing me, like my kid went through a lot today. And when we talked about it after 2-3 days, he said he sent her a message. He’s blocked but he sent a message still. This hurt me for a while. Ok, no conversation started this calmed me. Idk I am gone mad. He’s giving me this point that some death has happened there and you are still talking about such things. I just pulled back, i explained to him my insecurities, deep pain… Loneliness even after being in a relationship, fighting such demons alone. But, he’s not there to read. He’s already angry at me for talking angrily with him. Kinda I immediately broke my initial unfiltered reaction and saned myself. But, just listen to me, at least once. My hurt, my loneliness… you could have asked me once before taking any step. How much did I matter to you, at the moment, question is, why do you think with such a complex situation, still your message was important. And when, just 15 days back I had specifications told you, that now you will be living in your home town, there could be moments when you feel lonely, vulnerable. Just please talk with me, share or anything but i just hope you won’t text her, or meet her or do anything like this. 💔
Exactly
Yeah, can you see my comment below?
I know… We all were wrong at different points. I just don’t understand why he texted her now. On someone’s demise. Like, what was he even thinking? Why is that so important for him. And he’s blaming me now, that I can’t understand how you can be so shallow, on someone’s death you are thinking like that.
