So there is this girl, our friendship started in covid and we used to talk mostly on WhatsApp....... 2 years later we had a fight, I spoke really rudely to her and our friendship broke that day and after that, I had no expectation of getting this friendship back. But after a few months I got a call from her, she apologized and wanted to be friends again. 

I'm confused about why!! she still wanted to be friends with me even after I hurt her self-respect????

Maybe she is here, cos he remembered the good days. There was a time when you cared, and that was not fake.

Today maybe she wants that. Talk to her, understand her. Bad can be forgotten, if good is real enough😊

Friends

Friendship is better than love


Cheating

I have a best friend with whom I used to talk a lot, but we talk less now, and she always tries to justify that. But her justifications are always incomplete truths, or not the actual reason for not talking. I know this because we used to talk under the same circumstances before and now too she talks to other people at those times.
How do I tell her I don't need these justifications without hurting or coming across mad (because I'm not), I just want to stophearing justificationsand talk when we can.

A friend that you know little about, but he or she is ready to give a listening ear when you share pretty much all your hardships verbally, Is that person your friend or your priest?

3am Thoughts

It feels like I'm living with atypical narcissist who cares about me but not at cost of things that matter to her. Whenever we fight I feel I'm right but the way she answers to things makes me think that I'm wrong but deep within I know I'm not .She doesn't even fulfill the bare minimum things tht are done in friendship. I'm so bound to her that even a mere absence makes me go crazy .Im tired of overthinking and I hv to live with her for another 2 yrs (same college).I'm tired being there for her in every situation of her life even when she rejects my presence .I'm crying everyday and I feel horrible about it.I want her and I don't want her.Can anyone say anything about this ?


Self Harm

My best friend is a kinda difficult to deal wid. Like some part of me already knew but I was way too young to understand the extent. But now that I see it it's like I can't unsee it if? Our relationship is weird. ​It's like I'm always there for her... To help her when she need me but she's almost never there for me. And we just don't sync well. We have such different personalities and outlooks towards almost everything and now we can rarely be alone together. Like before we cld bit now it superr awkward. But also all my other friends are associated wid her. And I can't expect them to just leave either her or me. And I'm not saying I'm the nicest person in the world or anything. I too can be toxic sometimes, I accept. But sometimes her constant judgement and excluded me gets a little much. Idkk wat to do

So guys I’m really worried about my friend. She has been really suicidal these days. How can I help her? 

Suicidal Ideation

I'm feeling much better compared to the last few days. My bestfriend and I had an ugly fight which really harmed my mental health. I'm currently engaged and my fiancé is trying his best to cheer me up all the time but when I'm alone, all of this strikes me again. I want to share this story with all of you because I want advices from those who do not know me and who will post an unbiased opinion. So here, I go; we've been friends since 2010 and grew much more closer and became best friends in 2014. She was my soul sister, my bestfriend whom i never thought would ever betray me in such a way where it will be so hard to heal myself from this. My other close friend again rejoined our group in april 2020 during covid, despite the fact that she is not trustworthy because of her habits of being strayed away everything. My bestfriend and I thought that it would be good to have her back. This was the root cause of the entire problem. My close friend started dating a divorcee with a kid who is more than 10 years older than her. She has a history of dating older men who abused her and even backmailed her with her nude pictures. I tried to put sense in her that she should not take any decision in hurry. Even her parents do not approve of that man. He has a history of being someone who consume drugs(as per rumours). My bestfriend, I don't know since when she started to grow all these negativities towards me. She knew that i did not approve of that man but still she went out with them without even telling me, i felt betrayed. I confronted her about this and everything was resolved until that man sent me messages where my bestfriend is saying things that i have had never imagined in my entire life. She said that I'm a dominating person, I'm broke. I control my fiancé, I cannot see anyone happy. I said his boyfriend names which i did and i am not ashamed of it. He did things where i felt that i should be honest with my bestfriend about his toxic behaviour. It's been 4 months but i have still not gone over it. Everyday I think that perhaps It's me who is never good enough or perhaps they do not deserve my friendship. I have always been honest with my friends and told them whatever i feel. The fact that my bestfriend bitched about me with someone else, is still troubling me. She always uploads status on insta n fb about me, telling the world that I'm not a good friend etc. I have never posted anything about this friendship breakup online and i guess i will never do that also. I do not even know if anyone will read this and reply me.

Lonely

what to do my bestfriend start keeping secrets from me... And recently I even got to know she talks shit behind me ... she shouts at me in front of whole class.......should I just let go of our friendship or just stay calm and make the things up....
#I am an introvert I don't even have many friends
#am I overthinking it? I can't even sleep at night
can someone help I am not understanding anything

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