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@lost_soul_3

So there is a guy who said he likes me so much and I know he did, that moment I was so scared and insecure so I just said let’s just be friends because Deep down I know that I feel for him too and I don’t want to lose him but I was just so scared. We were friends. I never ignored him or make him feel like he is not important but suddenly he acts weird, like I don’t know,I feel like he started ignoring. I asked him ,does he don’t want to talk to me anymore? but he denied and said no it’s nothing like this I still like you . But whenever I get the courage to tell him that I like him too, before that he acts weirdly and I just can’t tell him how I feel for him . And it’s been 4days I feel he is not the same as before and it’s hurt so much, I know somewhere it’s my fault that I didn’t accept his proposal but I just want to know him more and wants him to know me more before started a relationship. But I think he just don’t understand me. What should I do now should I tell him my feelings for him or should I let him go… Because it’s hurts so bad and I don’t know what to do… He said he likes me for 2 years I don’t know that before but if he really likes me for 2 years how can he just gave up in just 2 months…

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Anonymous

Take more time and see his behaviour

@lost_soul_3

What if he just behave like this…😔

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Anonymous

2 month is very short period you need to be patience if he’s confused about his feelings then you cannot do anything he needs to decide what he wants.

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Anonymous

You guys can have conversation… don’t hold back from texting but don’t take things further in relationship if he’s not sure about feeling, no problems in talking and sorting out.

@lost_soul_3

So what should I do? If he doesn’t come to talk to me first should I stay silent or should I start a conversation first???

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Anonymous

You are overthinking so much it’s anonymous platform don’t hesitate in expressing your queries
Calm yourself then ask again I’ll respond

@lost_soul_3

I was just asking what should I do now?

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Anonymous

How long it’s been he’s not texting you?

@lost_soul_3

4 days . He just gave reply if I asked him something but he didn’t start a conversation like before it’s feel like he doesn’t want to talk to me

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Anonymous

Wait couple of weeks .

@lost_soul_3

Should I stop texting him first??

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Anonymous

After 2 week text him if he doesn’t text on his own .

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Anonymous

Okay thank you for replying ❤️

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Karthikey @stupid_nerd

It feels like I’m the same guy as I’m doing the same
I told her that I like her a lot but she didn’t say anything like that.But she always says that she don’t want to lose me,now I have started ignoring her bcoz it was affecting me

@lost_soul_3

I understand…but I Like him,I think it’s more than Just liking and it’s hurts so bad that he’s ignoring me he just gave up on me…

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Karthikey @stupid_nerd

I can feel what you are feeling at this moment.I think if you really like him and it’s more than that “friendship” then take some time and say whatever you feel about him…I can vouch on one thing that if he somehow manage to detach himself from you,it"ll be very difficult for him to again bring himself back into the loop of that feeling.

@lost_soul_3

I know, if he doesn’t feel anything for me anymore than there will be only one option left that’s letting him go and it’ll be so hard for me but also I can’t force him to stay. Whatever will happen I’ll accept it as my fate…
And thank you for replying.

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Anonymous

Honestly. Talk with him. Like be open. Like tell him whatever you feel and what you want from him. I am sure if he has waited for 2 years he is the guy who actually wants the best for you and knows how to be the best. See if something is bothering him. Like just have an open hearted conversation. Men don’t usually go ahead and talk even if it’s their love of life. Try to be little patience and idk how to say it but just be very communicative with him. Idk what the internet says about communication specially like leave him he will figure out etc etc. but rather be the girl who wants to understand him and just know what’s going on his mind. Just try to be his home. Trust me he will slowly open up and be his own self like the raw self that his friends even don’t know. I hope it works. :)

@lost_soul_3

Thank you

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Anonymous

That is actually soo relatable 😅 , iam a 15 year old , and now I am experiencing it , iam glad am not the one

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