So there is a boy i loveβ¦ and he didnβt love me backβ¦like we were in a relationship for 2-3 yearsβ¦but he was just using me, and cheated me at last. I have tried to move onβ¦ itβs been 1 yearβ¦ I canβtβ¦he was my first loveβ¦ I started loving himβ¦and itβs going to be 5 years nowβ¦i donβt know what to do anymoreβ¦i thought i moved on cuz i was completely denying his thoughtsβ¦but today itβs a different story. And i realised i canβt trust myself with anybody else, I canβt stay commited for themβ¦the only boy i want to spend my whole life is my exβ¦ik if i get back to him now, i can easily patchupβ¦but the things will again continue the way it was. He wonβt love meβ¦nor give time to meβ¦i hate this. Lmao. Dhhdhshsjsjkaksiususis. Fuck it, bye.
MM @monkeymind
You are moving onβ¦ The moment you posted all this you have started moving onβ¦ The moment you realized going back to him isnβt a real solution you have taken your 1st stepβ¦
Itβs just you donβt know Or you arenβt accepting that you have started moving onβ¦ π
Kabhi kabhi kch log aise aatein hai zindagi me jo hame zindagi ki sachai bata dete haiβ¦π
Thankyou!ππ
MM @monkeymind
No itβs ohkk π€π€
Btw you know just show that boy that you are much stronger without himβ¦ No one has right to use someone or play with their feeligsβ¦ π
So just be more stronger thn beforeβ¦ And move ahead for better and confident life π₯°
Yes, for now none of my friends know that i have not yet moved on. I feel so frustrated sometimes cuz i need someone to listen.
You guys are the best. Thankyou for listening. :))
MM @monkeymind
Yessss we all are best π€πͺ
Just consider me your new online friend π€π€
And jo bhi ho mann ki saari bhadas nikal do yhaaaππ
Haan ji jarurrrπβοΈ
We all know it is hard to move on , on things we love. Going back to him wouldnβt be a option if youβre looking to get hurt again. Try distracting yourself and experience things to help you move. :)
Yupp :)
Thankyou.
your most welcome:)
You know everything
But your heart know nothingβ¦
Whatever Iβm going to tell you,
You wonβt be able to understand a wordβ¦you will motivated for a while then you will be there againβ¦
But girl let me tell you one thing, the more you look into the past the more you want to hold it onβ¦and let me tell you bitter truth you ainβt moving onβ¦ because moving on include loving yourselfβ¦and you are so busy loving him that you forget to love yourselfβ¦
Now the question arises what you gonna do?
Let me tell you one more thing
When he was cheating on you,
He knew you are gonna hurt alot, you are gonna cry and break down into piecesβ¦still he chooses to hurt youβ¦is it a person you want to spend your life looks like?
See i know my words might wonβt change your perspective towards himβ¦but you to make a choiceβ¦to spend a life with a guy who wonβt be loyal towards you, wonβt love and appreciate you ( your ex) or with a guy who is gonna appreciate you love you at every second of his life who is gonna treat you like a queen ( your future)β¦ its your choice to choose between these two but remember your one decision gonna change your whole lifeβ¦
Yes, whatever you said is too appropriate. I agree with your each word.
Now Iβm being really honest I also want to love someone else, to fall in love with another person who loves me the same. Butβ¦i cantβ¦i triedβ¦theres a guy ik from my childhood, he loves meβ¦and he is always there for me. Even if i choose him, i want to, but i cantβ¦ then i will be the one who is playing with his feelings, cuz i donβt trust myself, i cant stay commited with him, i just cant. I wilk easily get bored and i dont like to fake things or rush things so imma leave him when that happens, then i will be no different than the person who broke my heart.
Thatβs whyβ¦ I donβt know what to do anymoreβ¦
Bdw thankyou :))
βwhen you canβt heal from whatever hurts you, you are gonna bleed on people who didnβt cut youβ know this
By knowing your worth doesnβt mean you have to be with someone elseβ¦heal it may take alot time but healβ¦and let me tell you, loving yourself even though knowing your scars isnβt easyβ¦but you have to gotta do yourselfβ¦ you have to love yourself, accept yourselfβ¦and its gonna take so much timeβ¦ but one day you are gonna appreciate it,you gonna love the process of loving yourselfβ¦be your own best frndβ¦but now the question arises how?
At first start doing things that you love, do whatever makes you happyβ¦talk to someone who makes you feel heardβ¦
Let me tell you if you accept yourselfβ¦ right person will meet you at right timeβ¦
Yess, thankyouu so muchh!! :))