So say you introduced your friend to your other friend circle and over a little less than a year, they became good friends. And now, since the last 3 months they’ve been arguing and fighting alot. That friend that you introduced even said “I wish I never met them”
but they’ve always been the ones your friend talked to every single day.
What would you do??
Yes, that’s what’s happening to me, I really don’t know what to do and the last thing I’d want to do is separate all of them. I tried to fix their friendships again and again but it never worked, they’d be friendly for a few days and then back to war. I tried talking to the friend I introduced them to, since they were causing the fights and they always said that they’d be nicer, kinder but it just never turns out like how I want it to be.
The friend I introduced, which I will call A is always getting annoyed by B and C for innocent things like making a joke that everyone else liked. I don’t know why A is getting annoyed at them, but A has a lot of other problems that might cause them stress and then make them vent it on others. But that’s all I know.
I think you should stop overthinking. It’s not your responsibility to stop them fr fighting. Maybe they are sticking around because you keep helping them. Try refraining the next time they fight and let them figure it out for themselves. I think continuous arguments will take a toll on all of your mental health. So don’t hold on to the friends just for the sake of it. If letting go hurts less than holding on its always the better option.
If I let go of them, I’ll have nobody left. And considering how hard it is for me to make new friends and make them stay, I don’t think I’ll get friends anytime soon. I’ll be alone, and that’s one of the things I’m really scared of, plus they’re really good people and they just really deserve everything good in life.
Don’t let go of anyone… more like don’t interfere in their fighting. If there are two of them fighting and even one does go away you still have the other one in ur corner. But if u continue interrupting and stopping them or whatever neither of them will realise what they actually want. You are not the problem here, it’s them. I’m sure they’re both great ppl but sometimes ppl are just not meant for each other 🤷. Some ppl just don’t mesh well and there’s nothing u can do abt it. Don’t be so hard on urself😂💕.
