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Anonymous

So, recently I figured out that there was no way that the person that I’m in love with has no chance of being interested in me. This looks complicated, but it is simple, especially for me. He is not interested. And then, I thought about ways to manipulate people around him, just to make him think a little more clearly. He already had a girlfriend, but as I stalked one of his friends with him, I learned that he uses her as a showoff prop. That may seem weird, and it kind of is. He wasn’t in love with her in the first place. So there might be a chance for me, right? Nope. This may be a never ending cycle. He has a lot of girls drooling all over him, when he decides to break up with one, he can quickly find another. All those good looking, cute, rich girls… I couldn’t be one of them. But I could pretend that I was one of them. Just like every other girl did. But then I thought, if he isn’t going to love me actually, wouldn’t all that effort go to waste? Considering that I’m quite ugly, and not rich enough to look cute with expensive stuff, and even if I was, still wouldn’t be as attractive, I accepted my fate. I am ugly. There is nothing else to do, other than not giving a shit about love. Really, I mean it. If you are lucky, guys are going to love you and if not, shame on you. This world is not fair, and it is neither my or his fault. So, at the end, I came to the conclusion that love itself isn’t meant for me. And somehow, it has nothing to do with a spesific person. Now, I know it. The next step is to actually acknowledge it and stop hoping that he will love me back one day. How can I make that proccess easier?

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Vinay @vkbharti1

Same situation occurred with me… She was using me but I was in real love with her

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Anonymous

Okay let me be harsh on you first because you ned to be told this. If a person is not interested in you, then you should simply stay away from him. Whomel he dates and what he does with them is simply none of your business. This will sound harsh but trust me this is the truth that you need to be told coz only then you will acknowledge that you have to move on.

Vinay @vkbharti1

Yes you are right

Vinay @vkbharti1

If you don’t mind… can we talk for some days to forget our ex

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Anonymous

Soo if he’s into girls who are rich and can be used as ‘show off props’, why do you want to date him? This might sound rude, but know your worth. You deserve more than a guy who’s not ready to look at you because of your economic status or how you look. And as cliched as it sounds, at the end of the day, looks are not the most important thing. I’m so sure you are great, and trust me, it’s his fault for missing out.

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