So my parents made me go to this college even tho this college is not suited for me. Anyway so Iβm going to this college and while I was talking with my boyfriend about this I realized he goes there too and now heβs helping me to get in the college. But it feels weird knowing that heβs going to be there, he feels a bit weird because he thinks he influenced my decision of going there (even though he knows itβs not really my decision). Anyway Iβm really scared of what is happening and on what is going to happen. Is it weird for going to the same college?
I think itβs weird that you feel weird
I feel weird because I feel like Iβm being suffocating doing this. He didnβt do anything that made me feel like this but Iβm scared because I donβt want to be suffocating yk, maybe Iβm just overthinking this but I still feel weird
You are overthinking
So youβre saying I should not worry about this? Yeah, youβre probably right
You should feel good about it
You have someone u know in the college! Be happy for that! U need not worry unnecessarily!!!
You need to identify first what is it about the college that could potentially suffocate you!!!
Your feeling weird, whether justified or not needs to be acknowledged first. Perhaps if itβs ok you can discuss your feeling with your boyfriend or other trusted friends.
The way I see it, you do have a slight advantage that your boyfriend studies in that college. But thatβs just me, not you. You may have a legit reason for your feelings. I suggest you discuss it with someone trusted.
I know I have an advantage for having him there, and yeah I think I should talk about this with someone I trust. Thank you<3
