So my parents made me go to this college even tho this college is not suited for me. Anyway so I’m going to this college and while I was talking with my boyfriend about this I realized he goes there too and now he’s helping me to get in the college. But it feels weird knowing that he’s going to be there, he feels a bit weird because he thinks he influenced my decision of going there (even though he knows it’s not really my decision). Anyway I’m really scared of what is happening and on what is going to happen. Is it weird for going to the same college?
I think it’s weird that you feel weird
I feel weird because I feel like I’m being suffocating doing this. He didn’t do anything that made me feel like this but I’m scared because I don’t want to be suffocating yk, maybe I’m just overthinking this but I still feel weird
You are overthinking
So you’re saying I should not worry about this? Yeah, you’re probably right
You should feel good about it
You need to identify first what is it about the college that could potentially suffocate you!!!
Your feeling weird, whether justified or not needs to be acknowledged first. Perhaps if it’s ok you can discuss your feeling with your boyfriend or other trusted friends.
The way I see it, you do have a slight advantage that your boyfriend studies in that college. But that’s just me, not you. You may have a legit reason for your feelings. I suggest you discuss it with someone trusted.
I know I have an advantage for having him there, and yeah I think I should talk about this with someone I trust. Thank you<3
