So my family wants me to get into relationship like a serious one they know I go on date with guys but I donβt keep anything serious. I had few relationships in past but all of them were asses n cheated up on me. Now Iβm really scared of getting into these things, I donβt want attachments from anyone whenever I feel Iβm getting attached to someone I start keeping distance with. But I canβt convince this to them. I have a really good life nice income all luxury whatever I want. Almost everyone from my friend circle is in relationship. Like my family knew I was in relationship with someone but they only know about one of it n that was my first one after that I didnβt told them about the others. N I just canβt explain my situation to them. Iβm happy with what Iβm but they feel the need for me to have someone into like marriage but at least relationship.π
Gaganbir singh @bira13
Hey,
Its nothing serious u did what u did and u donβt regret on it if someone cheated on u itβs there loss u were loyal rest no need to rush into any relationship take ur time get comfortable as u r the one who would be in a relationship not ur family eventually u would be the βdholβ if in any wrong relation relationship r not to be imposed on or to be done forcefully u can be straight forward that u r looking n if u find someone that good to greet home to meet parents u would let them know but it has to be on ur terms as in the end u donβt want to end up broken.
Rest fingers crossed hope u find ur match soon who deserves u
Yeah I do agree to whatever ur said but I donβt like anyone to be with relationship like had meet a lot many guys in past few years some of them could really be very nice as a boyfriend like the perfect partner to be with but when it comes to take a decision I say no for being together. Now I donβt have trust on that forever together thing. I donβt wanna have that attachments n then after a few months the person will come n say I donβt like uh now I like this other girl. Frankly saying if I ever ear this again Iβll dieβ¦
Gaganbir singh @bira13
Come on girl Iβm sure things gonna work out I would find someone eventually suitable c not everything or everyone will be according to u but someone genuine will be there keep ur eyes n brain open guard ur heart take ur time itβs after all ur life u r talking about to spend with someone not a piece of cake to be shared with someone
Dont be rash to someone be genuine and respectful after all u or any canβt force to be in a relationship
Be patient n carefull
Thankss a lot for ur support
Wish could get things sorted n someone to be with
Gaganbir singh @bira13
Ur wc any day anytime
N Iβm sure u would find someone who really deserves u n would take good care of u