So my ex and i reconnected this year after a years gap and we work in the same office i used to see him with a girl everyday and it made a tad bit jealous ngl but after we broke up he hasnt been with anyone and neither have i so when we reconnected he told me all abt it they are all in the same friend circle and she admitting to liking him bt he doesnt have any feelings for her she isnt her type and all that. But after we started talking he still entertained her went out on breaks with her.
And then eventually he started giving all his time to me. And he keeps on a pedestal tbh. So i never complained. However i confronted him today bez i saw their old chats where he used to text here to come downstairs whenever he arrived to the office. Even said that u owe me 2 beers when she found her no he said oh u finally found my number. I know all this seems petty bt it hit me that why did he kept entertaining her. So i confronted him real bad and he started crying. He felt so bad and said it was all normal she was just a friend who means nothing now and he cried like a baby now i feel bad bt still i didnt get my answer as to why did he entertain her for so long in the first place
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Sharath G @sharath3012
He cried?! I donβt know what type of guy he is, Iβm just suggesting few things based on what u just said in ur textβ¦
Sharath G @sharath3012
First donβt ask others about this sort of things β¦ Bcoz each have their own individual opinion some may influence u in a bad way
Sharath G @sharath3012
Trust you gut feeling and observe closely youβll get the answerβ¦ Bcoz asking too many people gives u too many answer and will confuse you. So think and act wisely
I wanna believe him but i cant i dnt know why
Sharath G @sharath3012
What makes u uncomfortable?!
The fact that he reassures me that there wasnt anything btw those 2 and all these texts were normal bt when she said she liked him why did he still talked to her
Sharath G @sharath3012
Jessica listen first thing, if guy doesnβt want a girl as his gf doesnβt necessarily mean he hates her β¦ Same goes for girls as well β¦ He may see her as friendβ¦
Well u r right. Bt he calls her wanna be and what not . That she is not his type i means he doesnt say anything good abt her so kya friendship
Sharath G @sharath3012
Calm yourself and thinkβ¦ I donβt say he is a nice guy and i also donβt say he is a bad guy β¦ U r the only person who can make that decisionβ¦ Iβm just giving you suggestion to make a wise decision
Sharath G @sharath3012
Relax okay β¦ You got this take time observe and see for yourself but be neutral while making decisions okay β¦ Donβt see him in either good od bad lightβ¦ Just observe i know girls have a weird power to find malice β¦ I think u can handle itβ¦ And may I ask u one thing?!
Sure
