So my bf is a telugu speaker. Today he texted me in tamil. He asked me a morn pic. I said no I look ugly. He kept saying pls. So I sent him my shitty face. He texted " Why did u send this I'm scared in tamil". I got hurt so I started seenzoning him. Later he kept texting me. So I kinda yelled at him a lot. He then told he sent " Why were u scared to send me this pic". He told me just because you are mad you can't abuse me right. So technically I abused him now. That word kinda hurts. I didn't tell him since I don't wanna hurt him anymore. Without my consciousness I've been distancing him today. What do I do? It really hurts to be said when u r an abuser. I'm confused now. What should I do?

suraj

It's just am hurt and am hiding it. I can't even text him properly lol. It's too much for me. Or am I just sensitive????

I dont even want to talk again tho. After him labeling me as an abuser right. I'm not sure tho.

I did. His mom cried today it seems. So he's upset over that. 

Boyfriend

I have a crush on a boy named Alex but my parents don't let me have a boyfriend 😢What should I do? 

How do you get over someone, when they are the first thing on your mind when you wake up and the last thing when you sleep. Day after day seeing their love for you fade away and one day you know you've had enough and you tell them that you can't be in this relationship anymore and they simply accept and walk away, and you're left with this hollow feeling inside, like you didn't get the closure you deserve. 

Breakup

I'm in a situation where I'm separating from my partner of 7 years. We have multiple children together and he has raised my oldest every 7 years. Without getting into too much detail we both definitely done wrong but I was the first to strike. However the last three and a half years it's just been tumultuous and I'm always in the wrong. Recently I had someone close to me pass away and my whole world shattered and I definitely reacted negatively towards my partner and then after that I just thought there was no help. He asked me to take a large house which I passed but after that point in a relationship it was over. The lie detector instructor told me that this test won't do nothing because continue to blame me and he just needs help so when I asked him to get help he refused to get any therapy. Then after that every part of our relationship was attacked to the point where we can't even be friends and we're stuck in the same house together until the lease is up I'm just miserable heartbroken angry sad desperate all at the same time I try to make right with him at the end and he went back to accusing me of crazy things harassing me it's treating me like I was nothing. I'm not saying I haven't been bad to him but these last 6 months he is definitely made it and things I've done have made it work I just know my heart we're done and can't move forward from this I'll never change my kids will never see us together it's just really hard.

uh, so here's my problem. im 17 now. i started dating a boy last year. say he's A. we were going alright for a month or so but then he never really gave me the love and attention i wanted. at the very same time i got close to another guy. say he's B. we use to talk everyday and he would give me the attention. one day me and A broke up coz he was hurt by the fact that i was getting closer to B. in no time after that breakup, i got together with B. my biggest mistake. but I still loved A. and he came back at the same time and i got together with him too. yes i dated 2 persons at the very same time. B didn't know that i got back with A. and A didn't know that i got into a relation with B. i didn't know what a grave mistake i committed. this continued for a year. soon, A started doubting me and B and then B started doubting me and A. B was very hurt, he cried, but i was not showing any interest in him. some of my friends knew that i was dating A, while others knew that i was dating B, BUT THE THING WAS I WAS DATING BOTH OF THEM SIMULTANEOUSLY. B got really pissed and then slowly i understood how big of a blunder i committed. now i and A broke up mutually. but im unable to get rid of B. im scared that in the anger of breaking up with me, he'd go and talk to people and find out that i also dated A. he would just totally kill me. i don't want to hurt anybody anymore man. i just want to live peacefully. nothing more. just peacefully, without hurting people. what do i do? i can't confess theyll be shattered.

PLEASE HELP ME OUT

This box is asking me that how m i feeling today.
I feel miserable, I don't want to but i can't help it.
Few months back, i came into relationship with this boy who was my school friend. I thought that i like him and everything apart he's my school friend, we know each other very well so this is gonna work btwn us. But after 2 month's, we started to fight on every silly thing. Even he used to say bery bad things about me on my face. I ignored all of this for 7 months ( during these months i always got humiliated 😅) but after every fight he came and said sorry for whatever he said. I was like yeah okay no issues, we are good. But now after 7 months of relationship i broke up with him. I am feeling so bad about myself. I am not that person who he always said i was. I don't know if my decision was right or wrong, but i just want to give up on my life now. I don't want to do anything. I am just tired with my life. With all these explanations m tired. Bye

Lonely

My boyfriend cheated on me again, this is the second time I caught him texting with a girl behind my back. They dearly called each other in their chat, claiming love towards each other, saying that they want to get married to each other, sending nudes. When I confronted my boyfriend on why he did this to me while still claiming that he still loves me and also wants to marry me, he just said that he is not serious with the woman, he knows that woman has her own family, and it is just jokes between them. I am baffled that when it is this painful to me, and he said it is just jokes? I said that I didn't ask for more, I just want him to admit his doings and give reasonable reasons that I could understand like maybe he just couldn't help to fall in love with that woman, or maybe because he was bored. But none, even when I begged him to be sincere about his feelings towards the woman, he said "it's nothing". I am deeply wounded, but as every minute passed my heart wants to believe what he said and keep forgetting how he betrayed me, even though I have screenshots of their chat, and it is sick that I still love him and am very truthful with feelings towards him. 

At last, I made my mind to break up with him for good but now I feel depressed with my lingering feeling towards him and the pain of being betrayed. I don't know how to move on. I feel like doing nothing at all and lay on my bed all day long, but I can't as I have to go to work. At work, I can't focus to do any work at all. I don't know what to do anymore.


Cheating

Why can't I freaking move on,I didn't even date him it sucks and hurts I just can't take it anymore, it's so obvious that he loves another girl so why can't I just move on I hate myself for this and it really hurts I can't take it anymore 

One Sided Love

I really miss him :’)
He was my support system for 6 whole years and Idk what changed in 10 days that he decided to just give up on me. I wish things could have been different. It’s almost been a year but I still feel like I’m stuck where I was. He is on dating apps now. Goes out to clubs, trips etc. He did wrong to me but I still am unable to get over him. 
I just want to be over it. Stop overthinking and start working on myself but I just can’t gather the energy to. 

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