So my bf and i are together from last 4 years and whenever we fight over something he never calls me and never msg me himself untill i call n msg even if its a month or 2 but when i call he pick and talk normally like nothing happened everytime it's like i told him so many times that don't you fear losing me man and he is like i don't have ans i am selfish i am so tired of begging for importance and love it hurts like hell my family is not that close with me i don't  talk fo them about anything we just fight  i don't have friends like i literally have no one to call when i wanna talk or need help and i feel so stuck..

At the end…It’s only you who have to handle everything on your own…no on cares for no one these days…..
Experiences like this will make you strong….
So distract yourself with something or someone new….. and enjoy your life 
Its YOUR life no one can mess with it…
Feel free to message if you like 

You have to talk it out. Ego is one thing that ruins relationships. 

Leave that relationship right now and focus on yourself girl there are lot's of better things waiting for you just go ....

Well, the one who is not afarid to lose you, is the one who never loved you. And gng months wdhout talking clearly shows he isn't interested in you

Anxiety

I just want piece of advice......
I loved a person he too but he  calls mi rarely n Also same about  text does he really loves me...

Love

Do I deserve to be tortured?ik It was my mistake I cheated on two guys at the same time and one of them got to know I decided to stay with him and left the other he had his conditions that I should not go out I should not talk to boys and I should not wear short clothes like a stupid girl I listened and now we are in 2 years relationship almost he comes up the part I cheated always and shouts at me bullies me says bad words we are in a long distance relationship I'm not allowed to put my camera on in classes because of him he says bad words everytime like gand mara randi and all its like torture and I haven't talked to any boy or did anything wrong past one year I understood my mistake decided to stay loyal and say the truth even if I tell him the truth he won't believe me I have issues going on in family too I don't feel like being alive anymore I want to die I want to find peace in death I just can't take all this it's difficult for me to even share my feelings now I'm so tired of all this I just can't 

Depression

Life has been weird and so has been my thoughts…
I ended things yesterday, and all i can think about is how he must be hurt with my words.
I know in my mind and soul that he has broken me and i don’t know why i still keep him above all.
Its hard to move on from someone whom you are still in love with…
I still want to work things out with him because i know we loved each other, but at the same time i don’t want to force things on him.
I’ll wait for him as long as it takes…

Hope

Ok story time. I've been kind of crushing on this guy. You know those crushes were you like them but you ignore it? Yah it's one of those and I've know him for two years. We met at this young adults group activity and I guess you could call him in some part a bad boy but not entirely. He was always nice to mostly everyone and I noticed that he was especially sweet to me. He even called me tiny cause I'm really short and he's tall. Anyway we chated on the phone for a while and he told me how he felt. And I ve never been in a relationship my entire life so I was nervous and scared and didn't acknowledge it. I'm such an idiot and I kept putting my feelings fir him off. Or attempted to atleast.

Note I'm an introvert and can be really shy when it comes to guys.

Any way we stopped talking on the phone and texted but then it stopped since he was always busy during the day and u was really tired at night and went to sleep early due to school. So we didn’t have a chance to really talk.  Its been months since we last spoke. And today I looked at his WhatsApp status and saw that he had a girlfriend. And now I feel like i should have made more of an effort to express how I feel. 
It was only after I saw the status that I actually realised how much I liked him  and now j can't an idiot fir not shooting my shot 

Crush

So I've been taking to this guy for a year.i call him Al for now. For 7mths we were telling each other saying i love and talked about a family and kids. He didn't make things official becuase I had just broken up with my ex of 9yrs.... then Al's ex came back to his job. She confessed she missed him and that she wish things could be different. He mentioned that they even kissed. But it didn't feel the same and wants me. That were not in a relationship so it doesn't count. Now Al says that she is his best friend. When he wants his "me time" for himself they hangout. I get all upset and then he gets up set becuase I'm hounding him.... should I just stay away from him. He use to be more attentive to me and included me in everything. He said he still wants me but I can't believe him becuase I feel so betrayed. Again he states that we're not dating so it was okay.....

I don’t know what the fuck I’m doing. In my previous text I mentioned that I’m not able to get over that boy, but what the hell am I doing. There is a limit to desperation. I don’t know why I keep texting him even though I know he doesn’t wanna be with me or even talk to me. I just get sooooo annoyed, I didn’t talk to him for almost a month and I’m back to square 1 again. Is there something wrong with me? What the fuck am I doing with my life. My decisions are annoying me. 


Breakup

I want to stick with him but his actions are bothering me, he barely text me, update me, or call me unlike before. His reasons is always coz of his work and sheeez. I need to know what to do? What should i do? 

Frustration

I have a guy friend, whom I love very much, he doesn't know it.
He recently got marrried.
I always used to say to him that I won't talk to you after you get married.
So the day he told me he is getting married, i stopped initiating talking with him and also stopped sending reels.
I didn't even congratulate him for his wedding.
But he didn't try to talk to me either,he just sends me a reel or 2 in few days.
I miss talking to him, sometimes I think of texting him and just start being friends like before,but I don't, because I still love him and if I keep talking to him, I will never move on.

I think one sided love is the worst thing in the world, isn't it? 

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