So me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for over 3 years now. Practically a long distance (thanks covid and colleges in different cities). Finally we’re getting a chance to be together. My job will be in Bangalore. He got a choice between Bombay and Bangalore and he chose Bangalore. I was given to choose between two parts of Bangalore, I chose the one far away from him because that’s more happening and I am moving out for the first time so I needed to choose that. I would feel alone and I couldn’t and don’t want to rely on him for my mental sanity. Like an understanding person he is, he did support me. But he’s very unhappy and feels very betrayed and like a fool now. I don’t know what to do or how to comfort him. I chose something important for me instead of us. 


Zuja

U are so confused. Clear ur relationship first. 

Long Distance Relationship

Broke up with my fiancé today. We were together for 7yrs. And suddenly I feel so lost. I just feel numb. He was the only guy I had ever been with, never saw this coming.It’s just, i don’t even understand what I should feel like. My career deciding exams are just around the corner and here I am , standing  here with absolutely no clue of what to do.

Breakup

one year and nine months later 
after all these mondays spent out of his life, someone will speak his name ,
someone will mention it casually, ask him if you know him, and you will struggle to hold in a laugh stained with tears because, oh boy do you know him?
you know him a little too well, a lot too well, and isn't that the tragedy?
you are asked if you know him and your mind flies headfirst into the past and lands harshly on a memory, like a bird with a broken wing crashing into a window.
he does not realize that to love you would be to let you escape, and perhaps that was his biggest mistake.
you still remember, one year and nine months later, every single thing he did.
so when you are asked if you know him you feel only regret.
so you chuckle a little, lift your head up and say "once upon a time", with a smile. there's no point acknowledging how much you loved him then. 
after all, your wings have healed now.

Relationships

Hello everyone 
Soo.... There's this guy I've been texting.. he sent me his picture asking about which color suits him then he asked for my picture, i said "no, I can't send you my picture cause i barely know you" he replied as "don't talk to me then" 

What should i do guys..? 
Should i send him my pic or not?

Frustration

Hello! My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. He told me he was not ready for a relationship (we have been together 8 months), he said he loved me but right now he had other things going on and he didnt want to hurt me. During this month I have thought a lot about us and I think I might have “idealized” our relationship and rushed him and pushed him.. he was not ready and clearly either was I.
I still care about him, I love him and I would like to have a second chance.. when we broke up I asked him if we could talk about us at the end of summer and we havent spoken since then; I’m afraid he might have changed his mind and I dont know what to do and I’m scared he has moved on. We have a common group of friends and I will be seeing him a lot and I’m worried I’ll never be ok. I know I will at some point but the idea of having screwed up this relationship is torturing me. 

He says I'm his best friend, we watch movies in night together where he keeps me close, he caress my head, he looks and smiles at me all the time, how do I prevent myself from falling for him!? Because I guess I really need to because he so actively uses Bumble! We are not committed so of course he can use it, but why does he want to use it!?? I know just because I feel for him it's not necessary he does too, but then what's up with all the love (like mentioned in 1st line)!! I feel so stupid for falling for him, I think I should detach myself from me, create distance, but I really don't know!

One Sided Love

currently I am feeling so confused. I am in a complicated relationship from the past 3 years. Now my bf doesn't contacts me frequently he never asks me how am I  doing or how was my day and even I am tired of trying too hard for him. He sometimes only face times me that too not very often like I know he is absolutely not into me but he never says the truth atleast we could breakup but no he never says anything and by his behaviour I have already known that he is not in love with me. We are also in a long distance relationship and we haven't met from a long time and he even stopped contacting me now only facetimes when he wills just for 2 mins that's all.
 What should I do now? Please advice me

Give me a solution!!
I'm in a relationship but I've lil bit strict parents! They are not that much strict but they are 😅 n Because of that I can't even call my bf 😐 he thinks that I don't want to talk to him but no! I want tooooo!! But I can't because whenever I get a call my mum just stand beside me n listen everything..she confirms that whether I'm talking to guy or a girl! I'm introvert over calls but I'm always ready to listen to him but what can I do when how can I call him ...it's lockdown here🤦🏻‍♀️ 24hrs watch !!!! We didn't talk from last 2-3 months😶

Confusion

So, there is a person whom I had met roughly 2.5 years back. It was my first day at articleship and the moment I looked at him, my heart ricocheted for a while. Since then, I can't forget the eye contact. He seemed rude at first not with me in general though. He looked so cute initially that I thought he was also probably a few month old intern. Thereafter, I realised that he was in his last year of articleship(senior intern in CA Final).

I don't know what it was that I found special in him. I was so stupid that the next day itself I took his number from the office diary and messaged him a doubt. Waise the doubt was genuine. I got curious to know about him since it's my nature. I like knowing about people and when I am unable to, I get even more curious. After sometime, we  occasionally started sharing some banter.  He is a CA now. I haven't seen him after the pandemic.Though I have his number, I don't message him often because he is preparing for some other course as well. So, I feel like I will end up disturbing him or sound weird if I will message him. 

Genuinely, I might have had short term crushes but I don't know why I can't forget him even though there isn't anything specific that I know or like about him except for the fact that there was surely something different about him and about me when I was in his aura. 

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