So me and my bf have been keeping our relationship private from our family and everyone cause we shouldn’t be dating because of caste and all. But today my bfs sister who’s also my close friend saw our text messages.
She said she won’t tell anyone but I’m scared 
If this goes out my parents would actually kill me 
Help what should I do ? 

Why would his sister will tell your parents about you both ? 
Sisters are guardian angel for their brothers 

3am Thoughts

If a guy cheats you then 

Erm...
I am just ezpressing myself. 
Well, i am a high achiever among my siblings, mom and dad has been congratulating me for that. My others siblings also has been supportive and proud with me. But, it wasnt the same with certain people. I know that it wasnt a  big deal about what ive achieve in my life and i shouldnt have been arrogant (i mean my siblings not jealous of me. Weve been treated the same by our parents) but the way they talk and treat as if i dont deserve. 

Ughhh...
Thank god they are not my family. 

Growing Up

Im so broken..My heart hurts. I just wanna feel something...

Depression

The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek." — Joseph Campbell

Motivation

Iam 8 yrs married,having 3 children's ,but don't want to keep relationship with husband.may be he likes my younger sister , he takes a lot of care of her ,talk,laugh  with her .he don't have any topic to talk with me . I stay mostly in my mother house , I love my sister ,I can't blame her , what to do unable to understand ,I love him but don't want to stay with him.ibdont want to see him in front of me,my parents will not agree to divorce, what to do 


One Sided Love

Hello frends
Chai peelo ☕

I'm here today to talk about my father.
I'm usually against the idea of talking about someone behind their backs, and that too, so visibly. But I also believe in the idea that if someone is fine with harassing someone, they must be okay with other people knowing about it too. 
My father is a bully. He hurts and insults people who don't have the power to say something against him. He browbeats people into listening to what he thinks is right. I used to try to pacify myself by saying "He's only doing this because he wants the best for you and loves you.", but it's been a few years since I really understood that he acts this way just because he can.
Whenever I start thinking about the mental and emotional abuse this man has given me, one incident always shines bright. *TRIGGER WARNING* When I was in 11th-12th, I used to self-harm and I was suicidal. My mom cried when she found out, my father didn't even address it. A few months later, I remember sitting on the floor in their room; my parents and I were having a conversation about what my problem was. Somewhere in the conversation, my father said this: "You can die if you want to, no one's stopping you. I'll feel bad for a few days, and I'll accept it after a few days. It'll just be hard on your mom." I think he meant for it to be motivational, but those are words that I'll never forget in my life. I always laugh when I think about it. 
That was just the icing on the cake: I've been body shamed, called ugly, called dumb, given the silent treatment for 2 months, mocked for my grades, etc etc etc. It continues today too when he tells me to just quit trying to become a doctor.

He has no clue about the things I like, the things I dream of, my ideals, my thoughts, things that I'm passionate about, things that make me emotional. My dad doesn't know me. And I don't think I want him to even try anymore.

See, I understand that he is the way he is because of the way he grew up. His actions can be explained, but they can't be excused. I don't have it in me to be upfront about all of this. The reason is that I have been honest about the way I feel when he body-shames me, but he still continues to do it. This is a man who's so blinded by this belief that what he's doing is right, that he can't ever stop to reconsider. I don't want to put myself in a vulnerable position, only to be insulted again.

I always ask myself why I can't find the strength to work hard and get out of this hellhole. It's true, I can't bring myself to keep working even when I fall. I find it really really hard to get back up. A part of me believes I'm soft and easy on myself because everyone else is hard on me. But if I keep being soft on myself, will I ever get the chance to live without being bullied and criticized; without being controlled? I really hope I have the strength to try.

(PS. When I say 'abuse', I mean ONLY mental and emotional abuse, NOT physical or sexual abuse.)


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I feel so detached from everything around me. I can't emphatise with anything anymore and I feel like I'm viewing my life in third person. I used to be sensitive to people and things and now I'm just numb. Why??

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