So I’ve been talking to this guy for a while and we both seem to be getting along really well. We plan to go on date soon and I’m excited but worried because I have a facial scar on my forehead and it’s not noticeable in my pictures and it’s only noticeable when I’m face to face with someone. I don’t think he knows I have it and I don’t know if I should let him know or not because I don’t want it to come as a surprise to him or seem like I was catfishing. I am worried that if he sees it he’ll find it unattractive and be less attracted to me. So should I let him know about it before we meet up or let him find out when we see each other (I am a bit insecure about it)
You should talk to him about it generally while sharing… before meeting… let him know you’re insecure about it
Go and meet him. Slowly you will also find some flaws in him. Eventually you both will because Everyone has scars and flaws.
In my opinion don’t make it obvious and in between the talks just tell him naturally. And it is okay if you don’t want to…I don’t think it will be a big deal if he really likes you.