So I’ve been into this girl, she even told me once how she always wants me to be around but I don’t really wanna be friendzoned by her because yeah that sucks because she knows I like her and even she confessed how she got attracted to me, but now when I wanna be with her, she’s been really avoiding me, replying me late.
I tried to detach from her for a month or so now but then yesterday, it was her birthday and I texted wishing her happy birthday and then we talked when she again told me how badly she misses me.
All in all, she’s been giving mixed signals on one hand and then on the other hand, she doesn’t even wanna get together and I can’t really afford being friendzoned by her.
At this point, I don’t know what to do.
I think you should confront her, tell her you like her and what does she thinks about it. You are in a situation where you have nothing to lose,
She does know that I like her but even then I’ve been getting mixed signals. Like she wants me there but then she doesn’t want me to be her boyfriend even though she said she feels attracted to me as well.
ask her why she doesn’t want to be in relationship cuz there might be a reason for everything and if she has reason then respect her reason why and just ask her how can we or when we be in relationship…according to the reason
hope it helped you…
helpes*
I did ask her but again as I said, she has been avoiding me w that question. I am probably gonna stop chasing her ig. About time I care about my self-respect.
ohh than ya go ahead do anything u want but remember it shouldnt hurt her
The more u try to acquaint with her, the more you’ll end up hurting yourself. My suggestion would be to stay away from her. Forget her. Or if u like hurting yourself, pursue her. 🤷🏻♀️
From a girl’s perspective, if she wanted to have a relationship she would’ve been more interested in you. She is probably using u for the times she’s feeling lonely maybe. Dont stay. Run away.
Yeah I guess. I mean you’re not wrong because yeah she only comes back when she needs me. About time I care for my self-respect. Thank you:)
