so iโve been feeling really overwhelmed reacently bc i donโt know what to do with my life i have to go to collage in like a year and i still donโt know what i want to study,ppl tell me to follow my dreams and do what i want to,but what if i donโt really have anything i want to do?,i used to have dreams and a lot of them but ppl always told me how i was just dreaming to much and now they want me to follow my dreams? what dreams? i dont have them anymore. I donโt want to make a decision that i will regret,i donโt want to end up living a life i didnโt want to live just bc i had to rush and find something to study, also im not doing really good at school bc nothing makes me want to do anything,and even the things i want to do i never put much effort to do it,i feel like everyday im loosing more and more of my time i donโt want to grow up be old and realize that i never really did anything that i wanted to do, i want to look back at my life and feel proud i want to feel no regrets at all,but seeing how thing are going im afraid that i may end up living a life i donโt want to,thereโs to much pressure put in me and idk what to do.
Hey!
Try calming yourself down first. You have time! Think about what you like. Write down your strengths, weaknesses. Things you hate , things you love.
Go research on the various courses available and colleges!!
Life isnโt a race. You donโt need to get things done at a particular time. If you want, take a year off. Breathe. Do what you love, figure out what you want.
Youโll get there. Donโt worry too much.
I hope this helps :)
thank you so much๐ It does actually help,i will try to do what you say.