So it started with she falling in love with me and i was not sure at that time and then she started dating someone else and i started missing her so i told her that i have feeling for her then she didnt replied and her bf called me with me hurting her and then again she started acting that she was hurt but she love me and now its been 2 year since we talk but she still behaves as she has a heartbreak. it sound like bullshit i know but i do miss her sometime but only because i know she is dumbass, i dont want to talk to her 😓

Confusion

I'm a 32 year old male, I had a girlfriend she was 5 years younger to me but this was a LDR. I'm extremely sad ever since she broke up with me I miss her presence every day but it was my fault I tried to apologize but damage is too big I'm hopeless right now

Acquaintance

Can we normalise of being ignored every single time even if someone's not stable due to her family issues n huge losses.!


Depression

Why am I so unsure of myself and my girlfriends love. Everything can be fine and the second she says something even a little bit degrading or better that she used to have it makes me fold. I just don’t know how to accept that she had better and now somehow wants me. Is it easier for me to be just alone even though we both love each other

Anxiety

If I were to see her one more time, I would pick her up and hold her in my arms. ￼

Love

Hi Reader,
I used to love a girl few years back we separated three years back. We had some misunderstandings so we moved apart but still I am not able to get move on from her. I still feel bad if I see her with someone. What to do? I know I am not the perfect person I feel competitive in love most of the time. Any suggestions...

i feel like i do everything for her but she makes me feel like im nothing to her she gets mad when i get jelous doesnt pursue me the way i pursue her i sometimes catch her talking with her ex she looks so happy when im not with her somedays she makes me feel like im the most important man in her life but somedays she's so distant and cold she makes me feel insecure about my body i dont know if im the problem or not i love her too much i feel like i love too fast and too hard that i end up hurting myself more i dont know what to say to her

3am Thoughts

Why moving is so difficult, why every morning i have this hope that she may texted me . Its been over 4 months since we broke still every why i check her inbox whether  she seen my texts which i sent her months ago . Why its so difficult. I mitovate my self i am not the only who is broken who had this breakup thing i am not alone but deep inside everyday i am just drowning little more deeper in my own thoughts. I want to be happy i want to forget her not to miss her . 

Breakup

I Don't know what I have done wrong, I had breakup 4 yrs ago from 5 yrs of relationship whom I want to marry but due to family issue my girlfriend state of mind was so disturb emotionally so I let her go to fulfill her family wishes I was in so much of pain for almost a year lost my job then somehow I start to move on & was doing good but always felt lonely inside, then I found a friend from dating app who had same issue and we start talking like normal friends n get attached, one day she proposed me and I told her that I m broken & it's not good idea but she keep insisting and I also get attached to her, I tried to stop her doing wrong with her life and she promised me that she will fill my heart with love again and I fall for her, after 2 months I felt I'll due to my disc bulging problem and I was in high medication n steroids which gaves me mood swings with persistent pain over my shoulder back nad become very boring to her, one day we had argument as she was not giving me time always ignoring me and we had very bad argument.I felt sorry and expressed my self she start talking for days and again she started ignoring me, I was not allowed to call in time of need due to family restrictions n all. She was always busy with friends and others and gave me lil.time so I approach her to clarify that she wants to remain in relationship or not & she started blaming me I m possesive doubtful n all even on bdays n other occasion she never come to meet only text n all, Few days ago I told her to meet and she couldn't make it coz of college friends n all then we had nasty fight over call she started abusing me n I lost my control n I did the same, now we are seperated, I missed her but her life is all fun. What went wrong still haunts me now I m depressed and lost hope in relationship. Any one suggest me where I was wrong apart my reaction to her abusive language. I want peace of mind I don't want to hurt any girl & I m not that kind of person. But I always felt transparency, conversation, giving time to each other with trust is important for healthy relationship but she didn't understand me at all.
Thanks in advance pls advice or correct me here.

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